Teenage drama!!! Help

[Dvcmbr09]

I need help dealing with my DSD's drama, they are 14 & 17 and each have their own drama that I can't seem to stand anymore! I know a lot of it is regular teenage drama and the rest is them being spoiled. What can I do to cope?!

 

[MinnieTink]

I have two daughters, 17 and 13. I'm just wondering if you can explain a bit. Are they fighting between each other? With you? With friends? It's all anxiety inducing to me. Maybe you can allow yourself a "time out" and just get a few minutes of peace and quiet.

 

[Christine]

I only had one DD to deal with. Yes, there's a lot of drama with girls. I can only imagine having two around me during their teenage years. The best thing to do is get to a "zen" place in your head and tune them out. Do NOT get dragged into their dramas or choose sides (unless one of them is truly out there). Let them work it out. You will have a headache and your nerves will be shot, but that's teenage girls for you.

My second child is a boy. Oh, so much nicer!

 

[Dvcmbr09]

I have two daughters, 17 and 13. I'm just wondering if you can explain a bit. Are they fighting between each other? With you? With friends? It's all anxiety inducing to me. Maybe you can allow yourself a "time out" and just get a few minutes of peace and quiet.

I agree any drama cause me anxiety!! I used to have patience with it all, I also used to get drag into it as well. Not anymore! It's mainly the oldest, almost every comment out of her is dripping with drama, also many to most of them are judgemental and blaming someone else for her problems. I been trying to ignore without completely ignore her.

 

[mommasita]

I am finding my DD14 to getting more and more like this.. I never experienced it with my son, so it is new to me..

I wish I knew what to say.. I often have to take deep breaths, convince myself this to shall pass, or go out for a drive.. All of that, "trying" to get her to accept responsibility for her words and actions..

We will all make it