ooh! north fork! my husband and i have spent many a weekend touring the wineries and eating roasted corn at harbees with the family. it's like a whole different part of the island on the north fork.
as for the sling, funny you mentioned it, i just bought a new one last night at babies r us. we had one already but it is soo uncomfortable, had to break down and get another. it's all about comfort in WDW! on the plane we'll prob use the snugli for a while and just do the baby pass from my DH, to me, to my DD12. last time we flew we had no probs with that, thank god it's not a long flight - we leave from islip and it's about 2 1/2 hrs.
as for the maine lobster festival, it runs from aug 2-6th in rockland. i've never been to it, or maine even, so i'm pretty excited and don't quite know what to expect other than stuffing myself with lobster. my DD12 and i have started this travel log which is really just a sheet i photocopied from a coloring book of the US. every state we've visited we color it in and hopefully, one day, the entire map will be colored. maine is just something we picked with some of my cousins who are self proclaimed food conoseurs (one cousin, 22yrs old, carries her Zagat NYC book with her everywhere). where in maine did you plan on going? are you driving?