I would just leave a nice guidebook in the bathroom, he will start looking through it. I would explain that I wanted to do a 2-3 days ticket, whatever you decide, sleep late, ninja strike our three fastpasses and eat a great meal at night, then return for fireworks. If he likes to enjoy cocktails, do a monorail trip and visit a lounge in each resort. Make time for golf, fishing, private cruise...whatever he likes. For my DH it is afternoon naps and ninja strikes to the parks, Stacy in the mornings on the TV and at least one meal at Morimoto Asia. He naps while I hit the pool. When he balks at the idea just tell him it is important to you and mean it. Then the next trip he gets to plan. My DH hates to travel, but does do Disney. He likes the town car from the airport, having a DVC villa and sleeping, like I stated before. I just get up earlier and strike out on my own and we meet up later. Just go for a long weekend to plant the seed...if done well, he will see the light Grasshopper.