Originally posted by Disney845
well yes...I didn't imply that, I came right out and said it!
You are right you didn't imply that you were a student. You did state it as a fact. I was simply using a play on words from your previous response to me.
While still in HS, grades are everything. People may say...oh it doesn't matter what grade you get, it is about learning...but that is a bunch of BS! Grades matter more than anything.
IMHO, that is a very sad opinion to hold but you are entitled to it.
Those that have them, excell, while those that don't struggle.
Actually those who excel are those who either a) put in the effort necessary to achieve good grades or b) are gifted with the intelligence necessary to acheive good grades without having to work all that hard at it.
While your HS or University grades might not matter to a boss or co-workers after you have already gotten the job, they should still continue to matter to you. I take considerable proud in knowing that I have done my best and achieved the highest recognition possible for my efforts.
I never said that I did not take pride in my academic achievements. I did put in the years of hard work to achieve and excel during my school years. I, however, did so out of a love of learning not because I felt that grades were everything. I loved school and I loved being recognized for a job well done but my grades/class standing have not meant anything to anyone other than myself since I graduated.
Maybe I am reading too much into this...but doesn't this statement kinda go against all that you are saying?
I am sorry that you apparently are unaware of the tone that was conveyed by the

The entire last paragraph of my original post was dripping with sarcasm. It was based on the line of thinking I have seen where people become so obsessed with a certain path and feel that any deviation from that path is disastrous. For example, the parents who are devestated about Jr.'s rejection at Preschool A - which means he can't possibly be accepted to Elementary School B - which means that he will be shut out of the top Prep School C and therefore all chances at an Ivy League education have been lost.
I am sorry that you didn't have the qualifications to be admitted to Harvard, but as you have pointed out, life isn't fair..
No I didn't go to Harvard (would not have wanted to) but what makes you so sure that I did not have the qualifications?
Sorry, but I have been living in the real world for a long time!
I really do not have any more desire to take this thread more OT than it has already become however I do want to say that I hope you continue to excel during the remainder of your college career. Enjoy this time because the rest of the world is waiting for you when you graduate.
By the way, I see that you are from Indianapolis? Can I ask what school you attend? I actually lived in Indy from 89-91 and attended Lawrence Central while my Dad was stationed at Ft. Ben.