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Read this amazing article first and then watch the video at the bottom.

>From Sports Illustrated, By Rick Reilly

I try to be a good father. Give my kids mulligans. Work nights to pay
for their text messaging.
But compared with Dick Hoyt, I stink.

Eighty-five times he's pushed his disabled son, Rick, 26.2 miles in
marathons. Eight times he's not only pushed him 26.2 miles in a wheelchair
but also towed him 2.4 miles in a dinghy while swimming and pedaled him 112
miles in a seat on the handlebars--all in the same day.

Dick's also pulled him cross-country skiing, taken him on his back
mountain climbing and once hauled him across the U.S. on a bike. Makes
taking your son bowling look a little lame, right?

And what has Rick done for his father? Not much--except save his life.

This love story began in Winchester, Mass., 43 years ago, when Rick
was strangled by the umbilical cord during birth, leaving him brain-damaged
and unable to control his limbs.

``He'll be a vegetable the rest of his life;'' Dick says doctors told
him and his wife, Judy, when Rick was nine months old. ``Put him in an institution.''

But the Hoyts weren't buying it. They noticed the way Rick's eyes
followed them around the room. When Rick was 11 they took him to the
engineering department at Tufts University and asked if there was anything
to help the boy communicate. ``No way,'' Dick says he was told. ``There's
nothing going on in his brain.''

"Tell him a joke,'' Dick countered. They did. Rick laughed. Turns out
a lot was going on in his brain.

Rigged up with a computer that allowed him to control the cursor by
touching a switch with the side of his head, Rick was finally able to
communicate. First words? ``Go Bruins!'' And after a high school classmate
was paralyzed in an accident and the school organized a charity run for him,
Rick pecked out, ``Dad, I want to do that.''

Yeah, right. How was Dick, a self-described ``porker'' who never ran
more than a mile at a time, going to push his son five miles? Still, he
tried. ``Then it was me who was handicapped,'' Dick says. ``I was sore for two weeks.''

That day changed Rick's life. ``Dad,'' he typed, ``when we were
running, it felt like I wasn't disabled anymore!''

And that sentence changed Dick's life. He became obsessed with giving
Rick that feeling as often as he could. He got into such hard-belly shape
that he and Rick were ready to try the 1979 Boston Marathon.

``No way,'' Dick was told by a race official. The Hoyts weren't quite
a single runner, and they weren't quite a wheelchair competitor. For a few
years Dick and Rick just joined the massive field and ran anyway, then they
found a way to get into the race officially: In 1983 they ran another
marathon so fast they made the qualifying time for Boston the following year.

Then somebody said, ``Hey, Dick, why not a triathlon?''

How's a guy who never learned to swim and hadn't ridden a bike since
he was six going to haul his 110-pound kid through a triathlon? Still, Dick tried.

Now they've done 212 triathlons, including four grueling 15-hour
Ironmans in Hawaii. It must be a buzzkill to be a 25-year-old stud getting
passed by an old guy towing a grown man in a dinghy, don't you think?

Hey, Dick, why not see how you'd do on your own? ``No way,'' he says.
Dick does it purely for ``the awesome feeling'' he gets seeing Rick with a
cantaloupe smile as they run, swim and ride together.

This year, at ages 65 and 43, Dick and Rick finished their 24th Boston
Marathon, in 5,083rd place out of more than 20,000 starters. Their best
time'? Two hours, 40 minutes in 1992--only 35 minutes off the world record,
which, in case you don't keep track of these things, happens to be held by a
guy who was not pushing another man in a wheelchair at the time.

``No question about it,'' Rick types. ``My dad is the Father of the Century.''

And Dick got something else out of all this too. Two years ago he had
a mild heart attack during a race. Doctors found that one of his arteries
was 95% clogged. ``If you hadn't been in such great shape,'' one doctor told
him, ``you probably would've died 15 years ago.''

So, in a way, Dick and Rick saved each other's life.

Rick, who has his own apartment (he gets home care)and works in
Boston, and Dick, retired from the military and living in Holland, Mass.,
always find ways to be together. They give speeches around the country and
compete in some backbreaking race every weekend, including this Father's Day.

That night, Rick will buy his dad dinner, but the thing he really
wants to give him is a gift he can never buy.

``The thing I'd most like,'' Rick types, ``is that my dad sit in the
chair and I push him once.''


Here's the video.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WjPrL3n63yg

Have a BLESSED day.
 
Wow. Thanks for the afternoon cry. That was just amazing.
 
Miss Jasmine said:
Wow. Thanks for the afternoon cry. That was just amazing.

Me, too. And now I'm watching a tear-jerker movie on TV. What am I thinkin'?
 

I"ve seen them profiled in ironman and personally when I took my son to a marathon. Impressive. I complain about driving kids to practices, etc.
 
I am from Boston and they are an institution at the Boston Marathon every year. A truly inspiring story.
 
:thumbsup2 :thumbsup2 :thumbsup2

I've seen him on TV. Like Bob said, speechless.
 
Devil_Dog99 said:
I am from Boston and they are an institution at the Boston Marathon every year. A truly inspiring story.

Yep--the Hoyt's are definitely a Bay State institution. It's truly amazing to see the reception they get from crowds when they pass by in all the races they do.
 
He is amazing, I saw them on Oprah, but what about his other children? What about his wife and marriage. I think I remember that he and the mother are divorced. I think what he is doing for Rick is great but he seems to have given up everything for 1 of his children.

I know REALLY unpopular opinion so flame away. I just got the feeling from the show that he did everything with and for Rick and left everyone else out.
 
RadioNate said:
He is amazing, I saw them on Oprah, but what about his other children? What about his wife and marriage. I think I remember that he and the mother are divorced. I think what he is doing for Rick is great but he seems to have given up everything for 1 of his children.

I know REALLY unpopular opinion so flame away. I just got the feeling from the show that he did everything with and for Rick and left everyone else out.

Does he have other children? If so, does he ignore them? And was his divorce caused by the time spent with his son? Too many questions that I would need more info about to have any idea as to whether or not his relationship with his son constituted "giving up" everything else.
 
Bob Slydell said:
Does he have other children? If so, does he ignore them? And was his divorce caused by the time spent with his son? Too many questions that I would need more info about to have any idea as to whether or not his relationship with his son constituted "giving up" everything else.

That was the impression I got from watching Oprah. The story was obviously positive but I was hoping people more familiar with the story than I am could clarify.

I just remember thinking "what about the wife and other kids" when the show was over.

I'm nearly positive that in the 'history' package they mentioned brothers and sisters and I don't recall seeing the mother there with them.

I know Oprah talked a lot about how they ran every day after work and went away every weekend to different races around the country.

I think the guy did a wonderful thing for his son, I just remembered feeling sad for the rest of the family too.

ETA - according to the Hoyt team website there are 2 younger brothers.
 
A friend shared this with me over the weekend and I still feel its very uplifting. Thank you for sharing! :grouphug:
 
I got goosebumps and misty-a truly inspirational story.
I read it to DD8 and she was amazed by what the dad did for his son.
And the reporter was right it kind of makes everything we do seem lame in comparison.
 
Simply amazing. I am still swiping at the tears. Thank you for sharing. With everything bad reported on these threads, it is wonderful to get a good story from time to time. :lovestruc
 
I had never heard of these men and there story before. I am amazed all over again by the human spirit.
 

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