I might just add that at Hoop De Doo, we were at one table, as we were at the Int'l buffet, 50s Prime Time, 'Ohana, Hollywood and Vine, and 1900 Park Faire. The only time we were split up was for the Liberty Tree Tavern, at a four and a six top, which were adjacent. Worked fine.
There was a party of 18 at a table close to us at 'Ohana, which had a whole team of "cousins" waiting on them.
Concerning the International Dinner - sort of like at Boma, several countries had individual buffet serving tables set up. Represented were China, Morocco, Germany, Italy, perhaps another that escapes me, plus a table of kid's stuff (mac and cheese, chicken tenders, etc.) It was all nicely prepared and very fresh - for instance, at the Italian station, a chef was preparing alfredo sauce from scratch for the penne pasta.
Entertainment was a deejay, which was just OK. The MC was a costumed lady (hard to describe ... she was dressed in a cross between a gypsy, a saloon girl, and a flapper, all in red and violet), and she called all the kids on stage, told them a story, and then had them act out their parts for the parents. The highlight was an appearance of Minnie and Goofy, who danced with the kids, with older couples (anniversary and birthday folks had a real fuss made over them), and did a conga line throughout the restaurant. The six teenage girls in our party thought it was an absolute hoot, and photo ops abounded. We were then escorted to a rope-off area behind Disney Traders (I think), right where the main walkway from Future World terminates at the lagoon. There were four or five stations set up with desserts - sinful, decadant, come up with your own list of adjectives. There were cakes and pies and cookies and mousses and parfaits and fruit - you get the idea. While we weren't seated during Illuminations, we had an excellent unobstructed view. Now, I can imagine if it were raining, it would be a total bust. Was it worth it? Purely subjective here, but for us, it was.
There's just something about traveling with a group you really like, y'know? And sharing in such a special communal experience - priceless, as the commercial says.
Sorry about wandering away from
DVC land in my post.