Everyone seems to think that Disney is so different but all cruise lines have spotless ships, friendly staff, accommodate food allergies and diet restrictions, beautiful spa facilities, great exercise facilities.
Wow, good for you! I mean that sincerely! I asked repeatedly for a GF menu on the CCL Dream, and all I got was the waiter smiling and nodding, clearly not understanding a single word I said. I got SOOOO sick. This year on the
DCL Magic, we were treated like queens with our own GF rolls, a special dessert ordered for us every night. We had special items as requested and exceptional dining experiences all over, including Palo with fresh made GF pizzas and death by pancakes. Not once did I get sick on this trip. I either got food poisoning or a really horrible lower GI problem about the 3rd day on the CCL Dream. I felt as bad for me as I did the people around me... where is that embarassing ICON...
We often got orders we didn't ask for, didn't get some of the items we did order, but it was clear that we never would (dinner service went on past 7:30 and usually we couldn't make comedy shows or we would have to skip dessert or take it with us, not the relaxing dining experience we were hoping for), so we would eat whatever they finally did bring us. The dining staff didn't even give us their real names, which was fine I guess, because CCL didn't have a comment card to put them on anyway, just a survey several weeks later that didn't even reference a table number. We couldn't get our waters filled and we had swam in the salty ocean and hot sun all day. I'm not a water obsessed person but I still remember being super thirsty and just rubber necking the whole time to try to find any of our 3 servers. They were just so overwhelmed with the tremendous amount of tables they were given. At one point, the AC was kickin' high gear so I asked for a cup of hot tea and had a finger promptly placed in my face saying that they would be back when they could. I don't even blame them for the bad service, I blame CCL Corp for stretching them so thin.
My souvenir refillable adult cup 'blew' away (I think someone stole it) while I was napping on deck and had it next to my lounge chair. I asked repeatedly the housekeeping and bar staff in the area, no one had seen it and they refused to give me another. So I refused to buy another drink on board (they would have made much more buy giving me the free cup so I would pay to refill it.) They had no interested in helping me out at all. I never did find my cool cup either.
I never saw the room steward, but my husband did, and all he did was tell him they don't make any money but tips and ask for more tips.
We had endless 'buy this! buy bingo! buy buy buy' going on that trip, 'let me take your photo!' when I had no make up on and was rushing to get to dinner. They cut back the sushi bar we loved, they didn't offer shows every night, some nights, the Love and Marriage show was the big headliner.
I agree that Disney cruising offers LOTS of opportunities to be busy, and that suits us just fine. That is a different style in cruising, since I was SO ready to get off the last CCL. You don't have to do everything on the Navigator, you can nap in your room as much as you like, or on the deck in the shade (which we did for several peaceful hours on
Castaway Cay.) But if like us, you WANT some fun things to do, there is plenty. That is more than I can say for the CCL Bingo Boats. Also, some of the things that the guests did on the main giant screen at the deck parties in the middle of the day made this 10 yr (at the time) married person squirm! That is not my idea of entertainment...
We planned ahead and if we saw a princess we wanted to take photos with, we would get in line as least 20 min before the time on the navigator. This last time, we were within the first 3 photos with Rapunzel, and we didn't even wait that long. (We were on the Magic though, but Dream last time, and it still wasn't bad as long as you got in the line a few minutes early.)
For me, the sea days on CCL are really boring. Karaoke and trivia all day, a super crowded bean bag toss, a lewd sexy man or hairy chest contest. I have gold status on CCL because back in 2007 and 2011, we really enjoyed the cruises. However, they have been declining since, and I personally wouldn't take time off for a free one. We only smelled smoke once on our
Disney cruise, but on CCL, it wafts all over. They also funnel you through the smokey Casino and deliberately place all the activities right there when there are plenty of other lounges for trivia. They would tell us to get a seat 30 min before the show, so we would, and then they would literally go up and down the aisles selling $20 bingo cards. We don't play bingo or gamble. If we left, we would lose our seats. Cheap.
And yes, for the prices we pay on Disney ($540 pp the first 3 day veranda Dream, $522 pp the 4 day interior Magic), getting the coke included WAS a big help. After my horrible painful stomach upset (which after that, I only ate fish and fruit the remainder of the trip), it cost me over $2 including gratuity for a can of coke zero. My husband often orders cokes with dinner, and so the $2 added up substantially. So did their tight fisted adult drink policy. On Disney, I can order 2 for 1 pretty easily, but I have never seen that offered on CCL. Not to mention that they gave us 2 bottles of free wine sent to our room for a creaky AC vent. AND that we could have brought literally any beverage of any quantity on. I drank Coke Zero the entire trip last week and LOVED being able to help myself. Say what you will about DCl vs CCL, but their drink packages sometimes DOUBLE the cruise fare people pay (I follow it regularly on CruiseCritic) and they still have limits on them.
I'm being specific just to point out that its difficult to tell others (especially newer cruisers) that they can get as good an experience on the CCL Dream as they might the Disney Fantasy. It might not be exactly your cup of tea, and that's fine, but there were drastic differences in the business models, and for that, I won't be back on CCL. Even my husband agreed we would try anyone but CCL next, despite our gold VFIP status.
Regarding crowds, can I just say, I have never experienced crowds like I did on the CCL Dream? I have never seen anything like it, and it was just a week in late February, not when school was out. They closed the buffet at 1:30, and the only thing left open was a grill at the aft of the ship, where every kid on board was already in line for a hotdog. We had several double lines for the omelet station (clearly the only edible eggs up top at the buffet.) I waited in line for COFFEE... when I finally got to the beverage, there were no cups, but everyone with cups kept refilling. When the cups came, there was no coffee left, and I had to wait again for the machine to be refilled.

Even self serve icecream, there was a line for that. I was suckered into what I refer to as a roller derby inspired jewelry 'sale' event on the last seaday and after all that effort, I decided to buy myself something. The first 2 items I picked had already been broken (I did say roller derby inspired) so I went and finally found a set that hadn't. Checking out at the gift shop was another ridiculous line. While standing in line, two strangers said "I can't wait to get off of this god forsaken boat. this is the worst cruise I have ever taken."
Clearly, I wasn't the only one!
Perhaps Fantasy didn't live up to your expectation, but I would be careful suggesting that people can have as great a time on a cheap cruise line, as that is just not something you can promise. Unless you can fix all the things I mentioned above...