Thank you for the responses. We have always stayed on-site, because FOTL was really the only way we (our daughter) could enjoy the park. And, of course, she is the driving force behind our trips because she absolutely loves it!
It would be nice to not have to spend the big bucks on the room, as my parents have a home in Kissimmee where we can stay.
Well, it seems that it depends on who you speak to and what kind of mood they are in at the moment. Our daughter looks normal, so I don't think we would have much luck with a fast pass, but the air conditioned family waiting area still would be very helpful.
We have always avoided Disney, since staying on-site doesn't offer the fast pass benefits. But, it sounds like they might be more accomodating to guests with disabilities.
Before we had our daughter, I was probably one of those who looked down at seemingly normal people receiving extra assistance. So I do understand the backlash. Now, however, I am walking on the other side.
Once in a while we would go to family bingo night at the local court club. She would have a great time until someone would win, everyone would clap, then she would become hysterically upset (due to the clapping). The room would then start laughing, not understanding her problem, which would cause her to become even more hysterical (due to the laughing). These were some of the side effects of the medicine she was on at the time to control her seizures.
When a child looks normal, it's hard for others to grasp that there is something medically wrong.
Again, thank you for sharing your stories and information.