Thanks everyone for all the input. We leave on our 'adventure' on Saturday. We made some changes to our plans though - originally , we were going to spend this week in
Disneyland, then fly to Phoenix for the
ABD trip, then home. It took me a few weeks to realize how incredibly selfish this was. I've been to DL twice this year and Walter never complained - and here I am planning his 50th birthday trip and I throw in a week in Disneyland. Honestly, when I stopped and thought about it I was embarrassed by how selfish that decision was (and bless his heart, he was willing to go along with it) . So, instead of a week in California, we've added days to the end of our ABD trip. We'll be renting a car in Grand Junction and driving back to Sedona for a 4 day stay. Walter is Native American and I really think the Sedona experience will be something he'll treasure. Also, from what I've heard the drive itself is pretty spectacular.
With that said, I have considered my comfort here as well. I upgraded our flights to first class and reserved a very nice suite for us in Sedona. I could say that I was doing that for Walter, but Scrooge McTightWad would be happy flying cargo and sleeping in a tent if it would save $50.
I've been researching things to do in Sedona, and was thinking about booking a 'spiritualist' experience, as I think that's something he would enjoy. I was looking into one particular tour given by a native american man and as I was reading about it, it sounded interesting - then he described how he moved to Sedona and met the 'star people' who told him what his purpose in life was. Needless to say, he lost me at 'star people'.
If anyone has any suggestions for Sedona, I'm open - just nothing that involves hugging trees, dancing at a vortex or 'star people'
Pete