Sounds stupid, but its upsetting me.

[Saturn23]

You can just block your sister and then she won't see your posts and you won't see hers. I'm not saying this is a solution to the drama but at least she won't be holding the "I'm not adding you as a friend" thing over you.

 

[BernardandMissBianca]

FB is really just one big ol' soap opera--I swear!

Which is exactly why I'm not on FB! LOL that and frankly I don't want to be found.

NB could also create a separate FB account just for DSis and herself right?

 

[bumbershoot]

Which is exactly why I'm not on FB! LOL that and frankly I don't want to be found.

NB could also create a separate FB account just for DSis and herself right?

You don't have to have your info searchable. You can make it so that ONLY those who you Friend can see your info, your pictures, your stuff. I have it so that people can see my basic info and my user picture, and people can see what I post on the pages of others (can't control that), but other than that, ya gotta by my friend to see more.

I don't think FB works that way, to create an account for two people alone.


OP, what if you replied with a big cheery "hi! so happy to see you here!" type of post in the thread that sis and SIL were talking on? Assuming you *want* to do that.

 

[BernardandMissBianca]

You don't have to have your info searchable. You can make it so that ONLY those who you Friend can see your info, your pictures, your stuff. I have it so that people can see my basic info and my user picture, and people can see what I post on the pages of others (can't control that), but other than that, ya gotta by my friend to see more.

I don't think FB works that way, to create an account for two people alone.


OP, what if you replied with a big cheery "hi! so happy to see you here!" type of post in the thread that sis and SIL were talking on? Assuming you *want* to do that.

even through google? I find friends on google, see their FB name and can see all their friends, I just can't see what they say. Do you have to use your real name? Could I use BernardandMissBianca?

Yeah, I would say if you, NB2010, want to make contact then do the the "Hey there!" message and let sis make the next move.