Some long ketchup here - sorry I haven't responded, we've been kind of just in shock (or more just "sticking our head in the sand and pretending nothing's happening"

) here!
I was shamed into restarting my TR, post #51 forward
I promise as well that I intend to actually finish my trip report some time - somehow it's lost the importance that it had a week ago.

I only have one day left though and then a summary so I'll get to it!
coastermom - congrats although re prom - ha! not too sure re girls being cheaper than boys. Off top of my head i paid over $600 last year ($200 for tux/shoe rental, $75 for flowers, $150 couple's portion of shared limo, prom tix $100, breakfast for 2, kennywood tix & expenses the next day)

Dutch is not done in these parts. I have all the pictures of need of him in a tux, hope he's going to skip it entirely this year.
Out here prom is only for juniors and "ball" is for seniors. Some advice on keeping it cheaper - DON'T have your son date someone a different class than him. Eric is a sophomore, but GF is a junior, which means that of COURSE they have to do prom this year for her. And if they're still together, then next year they'll have to do BOTH prom and ball.
On the plus side, a local tuxedo store came to the school and offered discount scratch-offs. Most kids got a small discount, but one of Eric's friends (who isn't planning on attending prom) got a free rental so he gave it to Eric! Actually no strings attached and he only paid the $7 to get the "souvenir" pocket square that he can keep and saved the other $133 the kids ahead of him in line were paying!
When does the weather start to get better in your area Mac? Snow at this time of year must be usual for you i guess.
I'm very perplexed trying to figure out why the ski area that we were planning to head to this weekend (even further north of us and Mac in the upper peninsula of Michigan) is closed for the season. Guess the 18 inches of snow last week, and recent highs in the 20's and lows around zero must not be conducive to skiing?

We had passes there but aren't going to pay to go somewhere else at this point.
marci ouch, that's a nightmare, hope it's over soon for you
dentist is a scary word, orthodonist is longer word therefore pricier

. Four sets of braces

I thought i had it bad with three. not one for each kid (middle one loves me & grew straight teeth). #1 lied about wearing his retainer at night, teeth moved so I had to fork over more $ for a 2nd set.

then he left 2nd retainer under his bed where dog found it & enjoyed it as pricey chew toy.
Thanks to everyone who offered support and/or PM's - I really appreciate it. As I said, I think we're still just in shock and trying to figure out what the heck we'll do with Eric if a job doesn't pan out here - really hate to move him during junior year (if nothing works out by fall) but we also really don't have any ties to this area and would love to move somewhere, preferably warmer, if a job opportunity played out there. Going to be rough for him in any case. Some options include having him graduate a year early and/or me staying here with him and getting an apartment if need be to let him graduate here if Royce goes somewhere else.
On the dental note, that's the huge issue here as well - loss of medical/dental insurance. Stephen was actually supposed to have his wisdom teeth out last Friday (day after the shoe dropped).

Obviously cancelled that but he still has the MRI coming up for the head stuff in May which won't be cheap and I guess we just have to pray nothing is actually wrong with him at that point! On another plus side, he was accepted to the AF Academy yesterday and his brother was really pushing him to go there (with him) but he signed his declination this morning and is still really hoping all will work out medically for MIT - we go out to visit next week.
Regarding the dog eating the retainers - we've done that one a couple times and we don't even have a dog!

(And never did). You'll also be glad to know that it's not a good idea to leave them in the driveway on the ground (where they evidently fell out of the car when he just stuck them in the door handle) - they're not much use when they're run over either!