The year is only 30 minutes old and I am already worried about something. As soon as the clock struck 12 a friend posted that she is engaged. This is the friend who lost her husband about 6 years ago. She was engaged last year, but that guy turned out to be a two timing, lying, jerk. I’ve met the new guy, and while he seems nice enough, I worry that my friend is rushing into this. They have only been dating since September or October. I really want to be happy for her, but I also don’t want her to get hurt again. There’s nothing I can do except hope and pray that this guy is the right one for her.
Yes, Alan Rickman did look very different in that movie. It was his first break in America and what a hit movie to debut in and be part of.
Your friend might be fine. Tom and I worked in the same place but it was a huge place of around 5 sq miles with many different departments and thousands of employees, so we never came into contact until I moved departments. I saw him walking out my building one day, he turned and looked. I asked a male colleague who was a good friend who he was and then said that`s who I`m going to marry.....lol....I didn`t tell him that till later.....
We started talking and within a very short time, I had sold my home and moved in with him, months later we got engaged then married, had Kyle and 30 years later we are more together than ever. It was less than two weeks till I moved in. I knew he was the one I was meant to marry, and he felt the same.
I`m sure a few folks at the time raised an eyebrow at the speed of it, but it can work out. So, fingers crossed your friend has found the "one" this time. And you can be there for her if she needs you. It`s always good to know you have friends and who they are.......
We have rain pouring down this morning and still chilly outside, no going out today.
Stayed up till around 2.30am chatting on Facetime to several friends who were all still up rather unusually, eventually I was shattered.
Enjoyed bacon for breakfast with croissants and chateaubriand for dinner later.....au gratin potatoes and some veg to go with it. I`ve made a flourless chocolate cake and apple crumble, have clotted cream and will make custard as a choice.
And Dry January has started.......we did have champagne at midnight last night.....we decided that was allowed, almost essential to kick out 2020. Kyle says he`s going to put a lock on the place we keep our wine.....just in case.....lol......no need. It`ll be fine.