someone wants to leave their kids in room for half a day with sitter

[timallen]

Its in this post
http://disboards.com/showthread.php?t=2335674

Am i over reacting about this I cant imagin anyone wanting to leave kids in a room like that especialy in wdw

 

[PryncessChrysty]

I just read that same post. She came back and said that she wasn't going to do it, afterall. And in her defense, it did sound like she had reservations about it in the first place. Maybe it's just because I don't have kids of my own yet, but I didn't think it was all that bad (not that I liked the idea, either). The people that responded to the thread seemed like they took offense to her question, but I think parents are allowed a little bit of adult time every now and then. Especially if they're going to be there for 10 days. That said, I do think that the better option would be to send them to one of the kids clubs on site. The parents would need to have their 'date' at night rather than in the morning, but at least that way there would be a lot of activities and other kids to play with.

 

[wishspirit]

I couldn't judge the OP unless I was walking in their shoes. Maybe the kids have special needs, and a bit of time with just them being on their own would mean a more relaxing vacation for all of them?

I don't know how I'd feel at their age being told that mommy and daddy want to go to the parks without me, but if they said they were going out to dinner, that is a situation I would know and understand. Most kids have sitters if their parents go out for the night, and a large amount of that time is spent getting ready for bed and sleeping.

Maybe that would be a better option for them, plus maybe going to a club rather than in room.

Don't they also do children only events like the pirate ship one they could do to have some down time?

 

[timallen]

It seemed to me that they would wake up with the sitter already their if the parent wanted them to "sleep till 9" I dont normaly judge people i dont know but sometimes words written by them are alowed to be judged if not they shouldent have posted such a strange (for want of a better probably stronger word) post its a long way down from my high horse but this has realy got me in a tiss

 

[howlongtillsummer?]

I would in no way want to judge anyone who disagrees with me. I say each to their own and live and let live.

However,
I cannot imagine wanting to spend any of my precious holiday time away from DD. I love spending time with her and she makes the world more magical. The idea of leaving her in a hotel room, kids club or even going on holiday without her, is more than I can imagine.

Kids grow up so quickly, I want to cherish every moment with her.

 

[timallen]

I would in no way want to judge anyone who disagrees with me. I say each to their own and live and let live.

However,
I cannot imagine wanting to spend any of my precious holiday time away from DD. I love spending time with her and she makes the world more magical. The idea of leaving her in a hotel room, kids club or even going on holiday without her, is more than I can imagine.

Kids grow up so quickly, I want to cherish every moment with her.

very well put

 

[Mickey_Man]

I think the OP was just looking for something for their kids to do while they had a morning together, which doesn't sound nearly as harsh as some of the replies took it. The afternoon/evening kids clubs would be a much better option but their timing doesn't seem to agree with that. Kids - particularly 5 & 7 - are often the ones who come home from vacation and reflect most fondly about things like the pool or the kids club experience, not necessarily the main park attractions. I think it is okay that she was looking for a little time for just her and her DH, but i definitely think she needs a better alternative than an in-room babysitter for six hours. I also agree that the OP sounded like she had some reservations about the plan anyway.

 

[DVCsince02]

As a parent, I see nothing wrong with trying to enjoy 1 evening/morning without the kids. Would I be nervous and worry, yes. Would I be glad I could enjoy a few hours to myself, yes.

I feel your comment on her post was a bit inconsiderate. Instead of judging her, you could help with posing an alternative.

 

[LilGMom]

While we have never personally done the sitter or kids club thing and have never really considered it I don't see what is so bad about it. And I don't see how paying for a bonded sitter from a reputable service is all that much different than dropping the kids off with a relative for a few hours while at WDW. I have some friends that have used the Fairy Godmother service before for their two young children and they enjoyed being able to have a few child-free hours. At least the OP of that thread was going to be using a sitter and not just leaving the kids in the room by themselves as others have done.

 

[doconeill]

We used one of the Kid's Clubs (AKL) on our last trip for both our DDs, who were 8 and 4 at the time, just so DW and I could enjoy a special meal which neither of the DDs would care for.

They LOVED it. Neither one came rushing to us when we arrived to pick them up, and asked when they can go back!

 

[katscradle]

I have used the KNO sitter's in the past so DH and I could have a little quality time together with friends.
Our time out together was in the evening she wants a morning.
I don't see what is so bad about this!

 

[UrsulasShadow]

I'm not certain what the point of starting another thread that the OP is not subscribed to in order to discuss it out of sight of the OP would be. If you feel strongly about it, maybe you should post to the OP.

 

[Launchpad11B]

I'm not certain what the point of starting another thread that the OP is not subscribed to in order to discuss it out of sight of the OP would be. If you feel strongly about it, maybe you should post to the OP.

I was just thinking the same thing.

 

[two-foxes]

I love love love my boys, but, THANK GOD FOR BABYSITTERS and KNO!!!!

I made the mistake once of posting a question about Flounders/cruising with kids once and I never realized what a horrible parent I was until I got a response or two from the DIS parent police. This falls under one of those "don't ask, don't post" categories for me anymore....

 

[Allison]

I'm not certain what the point of starting another thread that the OP is not subscribed to in order to discuss it out of sight of the OP would be. If you feel strongly about it, maybe you should post to the OP.

Absolutely.

Posters should be able post legitimate questions on this website. Many people use babysitting services and of course it is up to each parent to decide if it what they want to do. It's not cool to start another thread within another forum to disparage someone else's thread.

 

[Cyrano]

I'm not certain what the point of starting another thread that the OP is not subscribed to in order to discuss it out of sight of the OP would be. If you feel strongly about it, maybe you should post to the OP.

 

[howlongtillsummer?]

With every respect.

Perhaps the OP just valued your thoughts and was interested in your opinions.

 

[mainegal]

I'm not certain what the point of starting another thread that the OP is not subscribed to in order to discuss it out of sight of the OP would be. If you feel strongly about it, maybe you should post to the OP.

I agree.
You are a wise woman!

 

[cdotla]

Personally, I would not want to be without my kids during daytime Park touring. But, like all parents, I appreciate that sometimes it is GREAT to get a break from the kids.

Plenty of parents use babysitting at night to get a break and enjoy some adult time. Why is this any better or worse than doing it in the daytime?

I think the OP said she will be on a 7 or 10 day trip. If they were looking to pawn the kids off everyday that might sit with me differently, but one morning off to do some adult Park touring doesn't sound bad to me at all.

BTW - a lot of parents (myself included) have even travelled to WDW alone, leaving the kiddos at home. Does this make us bad parents? I don't think so. Given a choice between being left at home entirely, or just being left at the resort for half a day, I think most kids would choose to be taken on the trip!

 

[DisneyKevin]

I'm not certain what the point of starting another thread that the OP is not subscribed to in order to discuss it out of sight of the OP would be. If you feel strongly about it, maybe you should post to the OP.

I am going to agreewith Mindy on this one.

If you feel the need to comment on this subject.....I would post on the original thread.

With that, I will e closing this thread.