Wow, I have to admit, this is the first heated debate I have seen since joining the boards. Some interesting perspectives from some folks.
I have to agree on the line cutters who do it in a rude way. I am a Mom and Grandma and can certainly understand a child who suddenly has to go while in line. If a person was in front of me and had to excuse themselves to use the bathroom, I would be ok with it, after all, they were there before me. But, if in the case of the OP, it was a large family group who joined one person in line, I think it's unfair to claim a spot, if your group is not ready, just like the lady in the grocery store. Now that was just wrong
This is our 4th year going to WDW, it is me, my husband and my teenage son. If the 3 of us are not prepared to enter a ride line, we wait until we are all ready, it's just common courtesy. Now with that being said, we very rarely stand in the the
long lines at the park. We have let more rides pass us by, because of the lines. My husband had total knee replacement a few years ago and the doc botched the operation, so he had to have it redone 9 months after the first one. Needless to say, his knee never had the time to heal properly from the damage of the first one, and he has never been the same since, with ligament damage, etc. He now is 53 and walks with a cane. He is a retired police officer and doesn't feel that he needs any special treatment and his pride stops him from getting an
ECV as he believes there are others that need it more than him.
There are times when we walk to up a ride to find a long line and the CM will wave him over to the handicap entrance. My son and I then proceed to join the folks waiting in line, even though it meant we would be separated from my husband during the ride. We have had CM's tell us to enter with my husband so we can ride with him. I can tell you, we have gotten dirty looks and I feel guilty about it. It really is a difficult predicament for us. He cannot "stand" in a line for a long period of time, and although getting a fastpass is an option, if we are on the other side of the park, he doesn't want to walk back to the ride. Sure we could probably do the "me and son wait in line, and DH joins us when we are up front" but we wouldn't feel right doing that. So what it boils down to, is usually just walk the parks and get on a ride if it is convenient for us. We enjoy riding together and the limitations sometimes prevent us from doing that.
Sadly, there are people out there that ruin it for those who truly do have a medical problem, people who use wheelchairs and shouldn't and people who don't have true disabilities but pretend they do, so that they don't have to wait in line.
I usually show the utmost respect for my elders, and if there were an elderly couple who I sympathized with, I would let them go in front of me. Now if they were just rude, that would be a different story.
At some point in all of our lives, we each will be old, troubled, disabled in some way, and in need of special treatment. I try to understand that in everyone that I meet in life, as someday I will be that person. I guess I was raised to respect others and I try to do that.
However, if you rudely try to push past me in a line I have been standing in for quite a while, you are going to have to get by myself and my 6'4" DH.

And believe it or not, we have had people in the parks push by us to get in line ahead of us and practically knock him over even though they clearly see he is walking with a cane.
