We did this this year! We took our kids to Disney for Xmas and we were gone from Dec 21-29.
We usually do Xmas at our house & have 30 family members (adults & kids) that I cook & bake for. It is my mother's side of the family. Then the next day I get to do it all over again for my dad & 10 people from his side of the family!
My mothers family is the worst. There is usually a ton of drama before the holiday that usually starts on Thanksgiving at my moms house. They come to my house on Xmas day and no one can ever arrive at the same time so it's like a revolving door! Then their kids are all misbehaved and usually ruin a handful of things in our house & fight with my kids. I have to buy a gift for every one including step kids I've never met! I buy nice gifts, things the kids have on their lists, they bring my kids dollar store items.
So, this year DH said enough! It's too stressful for you & we don't even enjoy it anymore. Telling everyone was scary! I still have my mother pissed at me. She thinks I was just trying to be cheap & not buy anyone gifts! (FYI I still bought gifts for my parents, inlaws, aunt, sister & nieces/nephews!)
We had an amazing time at WDW. It was beautiful and I'm so glad we did it. We never ran in to crowds, never waited on line for anything! We had great dinners, down time & good quality time with our kids.
But, on Xmas eve it was so strange to not be baking and preparing for the next day! On Xmas day it was so weird not being home, with my crazy family! For the 1st time my sisters spent that day with our father & they called me & my dad was so emotional! He told me had had the perfect day, but there was only one thing missing, me! I cried & told my husband I can't leave again during Xmas! I just have to do it a different way. No more at my home but I think it's time to spend that day with my dad & sisters going forward.
My DS (9) hated being away for Xmas! My DD (14) didn't care until she found out we had snow on Xmas day! Both kids were so upset they missed it. My son just wanted to be home with his toys and moms cooking lol. My DH loved it! So, maybe someday we will do it again, but not next year.
We usually do Xmas at our house & have 30 family members (adults & kids) that I cook & bake for. It is my mother's side of the family. Then the next day I get to do it all over again for my dad & 10 people from his side of the family!
My mothers family is the worst. There is usually a ton of drama before the holiday that usually starts on Thanksgiving at my moms house. They come to my house on Xmas day and no one can ever arrive at the same time so it's like a revolving door! Then their kids are all misbehaved and usually ruin a handful of things in our house & fight with my kids. I have to buy a gift for every one including step kids I've never met! I buy nice gifts, things the kids have on their lists, they bring my kids dollar store items.
So, this year DH said enough! It's too stressful for you & we don't even enjoy it anymore. Telling everyone was scary! I still have my mother pissed at me. She thinks I was just trying to be cheap & not buy anyone gifts! (FYI I still bought gifts for my parents, inlaws, aunt, sister & nieces/nephews!)
We had an amazing time at WDW. It was beautiful and I'm so glad we did it. We never ran in to crowds, never waited on line for anything! We had great dinners, down time & good quality time with our kids.
But, on Xmas eve it was so strange to not be baking and preparing for the next day! On Xmas day it was so weird not being home, with my crazy family! For the 1st time my sisters spent that day with our father & they called me & my dad was so emotional! He told me had had the perfect day, but there was only one thing missing, me! I cried & told my husband I can't leave again during Xmas! I just have to do it a different way. No more at my home but I think it's time to spend that day with my dad & sisters going forward.
My DS (9) hated being away for Xmas! My DD (14) didn't care until she found out we had snow on Xmas day! Both kids were so upset they missed it. My son just wanted to be home with his toys and moms cooking lol. My DH loved it! So, maybe someday we will do it again, but not next year.