I don't understand. What's wrong with gay bars? I wouldn't be bringing my kids into any bar in Key West, so why does it matter?
I haven't been to Key West since 2002, but I don't remember it being such a terrible place.
The Sunset Festival in Mallory Square is so neat! I have these handmade wooden snowflakes on my Christmas tree every year that came form Key West. The shopping is terrific.
The Hemingway House is so cool! They have multi generations of cats there with extra toes, some with many extra toes. They are very friendly. Its a gorgeous place. If you are military, nearby is Boca Chica, Key West Naval Air Station, Sigsbee, and Truman Annex. I know the sweet, quiet beach at Truman Annex is gone, I think it was civilianized a few years ago.
There were great restaurants with terrific entertainment, beautiful beaches, impressive art galleries.
They have street performers on Duval Street in the evening. I distinctly recall a really terrific mime during a couple of visits. Very talented and believable.
I may be botching the name, but there is a restaurant called Bagatelli's that has the most incredible mussels I've ever eaten.
You can take a cruise out of Key West on a tall masted ship that is an experience of a lifetime.
For military folks, wave runner rentals were very reasonable on base.
Now, while I visited several times between 1991 and 2002, I never could get the hang of the taste of conch. Eeewww! Sorry, but ick!
There are some really neat houses in Key West too! We used to take the island tram ride during the holidays to look at Christmas decorations. People put lights on their palm trees!
Now Halloween is known for debauchery in Key West. They have a wild parade that is known for being very risque.
My kids have been all over Key West on several occasions. We've never witness gay people behaving innappropriately in front of our kids. We did see some inebriated college Spring Breakers one year, but we just turned around and went the other direction. I just don't understand what being homosexual or heterosexual has to do with visiting Key West. As a family, we've had some terrific vacation there. The diversity there also makes it a comfortable place for my extended family members who just happen to be gay to visit with us and not feel welcomed.
Am I missing something?