LaLalovesWDW
**Disney Diva for Life**
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I'm eagerly awaiting answers to this, it might help answer my questions as well,
I think I had a date with guy # 1's sister.. had an entire weekend planned, she was supposed to arrive Saturday, we were going to do a photo shoot, go to dinner etc. etc..
heard from her early saturday morning, then nothing all day.. 11:30 Saturday night she texted me and said she was sorry but her car overheated, and she had to have it towed to the garage.........I'm still trying to figure out how an overheated car, caused her cell phone to stop working until late at night..
as for your situation I'm guessing the following is the issue..
you are far from ugly, you meet these guys, talk with them and they are attracted to you, flirting occurs.. they really don't think you're interested, because you seem too good to be true..besides they have a wife/girlfriend at home. when you follow up with a text or call, they realize that you were serious,
then they want to continue for one of 2 reasons,
either you are much more appealing than the woman at home,
or they just want to continue with the ego stroking, since they get none at home..![]()
Put that popcorn down... LOL. Ok, sorry that chick did that, but at least I know its not just me. HAHAHAHA... with her phone.. maybe he had a Ford Edge and the phone was programmed into the car.
And, actually what you type there makes lots of sense. With the first guy, I asked him if he had a woman at home because I never spoke to him at home (which is such a red flag). My XH was notorious for that one with his side chicks so I know all the games. He swore up and down "no" but I agree that he probably just wants his ego (and probably other things) stroked that he not getting at home. I think the 2nd guy probably has someone also. Actually I think everyone has someone somewhere for some purpose (except me...) I can't even get a FWB!

You are beautiful, they must have issues. It's the truth!
Awww thanks mama! Yeah, they may have issues, but why am I attracting these people??