My DH bought a red sports car as his Mid life crisis, so I have no room to talk....but......
My 55 year old widowed neighbor, just retired from a state job , now has a midddle aged( peroxide haired )tatooed live -in girl friend.....and he is now wearing an earring!

My 55 year old widowed neighbor, just retired from a state job , now has a midddle aged( peroxide haired )tatooed live -in girl friend.....and he is now wearing an earring!



(this is in regard to the OP's neighbor and his kookiness. You other posters are just doing normal little life changes...we all do those!)
He never talked about a Harley til about three years ago......must definetly be a mid-life thing!