sigh, sigh, sigh.

[BeachBum16]

there are these people at my school and they are so rude to me. They say i take their friends away when i don't. I don't take any of their friends away, i don't talk behind their back and i don't spread rumors. yet they still say i do all these things when it isn't true. Out of the blue in January they said they didn't want to be my friend anymore, just out of the blue when we were really good friends. although we got into A TON of fights. I admited that i over reacted to little stupid things and it was true. we tried being friends again and it didn't work, it was just non stop trying to be friends then not being friends. so what do i do? we are finally NOT friends and they are still being really mean. i have no idea what to do. plus i just started 7th grade this year and there is a bunch of homework (obviously) and they just make it really hard for me even though i have a ton of other friends to hang out with. i just don't know what to do. no matter what i do they still annoy me. even when they don't talk to me there are rude. plus one of them doesn't like anyone! not litterally anyone but she doesn't like all my guy friends, even when she doens't know them. all of my guy friends she hates except for one person. his name is jade. anyway they are being so rude. please help me ya'll. they make my life so hard! you have no idea. please please help me!

thanks,
BeachBum16

 

[MuNkY]

Ignore them. Curse them to, well, you know.

And if you think there is a ton of HW in 7th grade, just wait until HS.

 

[yoyo93]

(edit) never mind...

 

[xxDisneyDancerxx]

Just ignore them and stay away from them...or try to work it out...I bet this will only be in 7th grade for you because all the drama tends to go away in 8th grade...so just hang in there.

 

[Daisymae26]

And if you think there is a ton of HW in 7th grade, just wait until HS.

oh yeah, i agree!

 

[MuNkY]

Just ignore them and stay away from them...or try to work it out...I bet this will only be in 7th grade for you because all the drama tends to go away in 8th grade...so just hang in there.

Bah the drama never goes away.

You will face this kind of stuff for the rest of MS, HS, College, during your carrer. It never goes away, so you just have to learn how to ignore it.

 

[belle_of_the_ball]

munky is right..the drama never goes away..you've got to learn to pick your battles..which means not over reacting on the little things...but looking at the big picture and deciding if you want to fight that one or not. THis one..I'd say brush it off...and DONT TALK BEHIND PEOPLES BACKS!!!! You will pay for this one...and im speaking from experience. There is also a ton of HW in high school...and alot of Drama.

 

[goofy123]

Just act like you don't care about it and ignore them. You will go through school having these kinds of things happen. Don't worry...in high school you will make a lot more friends. You said you had a lot of friends so just hang out with them. Munky's right....drama never goes away.

 

[Arielfn93]

The drama does never go away, especially when people do this stuff,

 

[PolynessianBaby]

I agree with everyone else! The drama NEVER goes away I think it actually gets worse as you go along! Definatly just wait until HS there is way more hw and a lot more drama to go around. My school year just ended the 1st quarter and I'm already sick of the drama. My advice...try hanging out with more guys and have only a few close girl friends b/c guys create so much LESS drama. Just ignore your friends, my guess if they are truely your friends they will let it all go in a few weeks.
Taylor**

 

[Alladin18]

i hate people like that im a freshman (9th grade) and there is soo much drama in HS and i hate it....soo in my advise just ignore them and they will go away...

 

[plutoluver09]

Yeah, I'm a freshman in high school..and my "friends" acted like they liked me one day and then next day they didnt. And its almost like, no matter how much you try to ignore them, and act like its not even hurting you, they still bother you no matter how hard you try to ignore them. My "friends" use to say and spread rumors and say that i talked behind this one girls back and that made me look horrible. But maybe they are jealous of you. Your probably a smart girl, pretty, have things they dont have..etc...

Just hang in there..

 

[xlRacerXlx]

Ignore your peers being rude... I mean, if this girl is so annoying, why bother? Besides, from experience, one friend of the opposite sex is better than two friends of the same sex... Basically, this is lower middle school drama, and is nothing compared to what will happen in your high school or adult life... Just wait until that person you "loved" cheats on you, it will just be the time of your life...

 

[MuNkY]

Ignore your peers being rude... I mean, if this girl is so annoying, why bother? Besides, from experience, one friend of the opposite sex is better than two friends of the same sex... Basically, this is lower middle school drama, and is nothing compared to what will happen in your high school or adult life... Just wait until that person you "loved" cheats on you, it will just be the time of your life...

Oh yeah, it's wonderful when you find out a loved one cheated on you. What a ride that was.

 

[xlRacerXlx]

Oh yeah, it's wonderful when you find out a loved one cheated on you. What a ride that was.

haha you feel my pain... but life goes on... and I have fun with it

 

[MuNkY]

haha you feel my pain... but life goes on... and I have fun with it

Heh, I was hurt at first when I found out, but the more I thought about it, the more I was amused by it. Ended up turning a potentially sappy convorsation, into a very, errr, interesting one.

 

[xlRacerXlx]

Heh, I was hurt at first when I found out, but the more I thought about it, the more I was amused by it. Ended up turning a potentially sappy convorsation, into a very, errr, interesting one.

lol you're cool... Do you have aim or msn?

 

[MuNkY]

lol you're cool... Do you have aim or msn?

I have yahoo if you want to D/L that. In my mind, it's the best out of the three.

AIM is basically a virus, and MSN is too clustered for my likeing.

 

[xlRacerXlx]

lol i do have it, but i'm never on it... since none of my friends use it and it eats up the most RAM of them all...