Yep, we're in the "downgrade" club too. For a few years, Disney was offering such great discounts, that we stayed in 1BR villas at BWV, OKW, BCV and SSR. We loved them, but when the 40% and 45% deals went away, we moved to a cabin at Fort Wilderness. Love those, in fact if there was a washer/dryer in there, we'd call it perfect. But now those are getting too expensive. We've stayed at ASMu three times, once without the kids and twice in a family suite. We love it there too! The resort is old enough that the landscaping is very mature, the theming is really fun and the pools are nice. The activities around the pool are great for the kids.
We weren't that thrilled with Beach Club and the pool either. We'd pick Boardwalk over Beach Club.
We always said if we couldn't stay in a villa then we just wouldn't go. Well, then when confronted with it, suddenly it was okay to stay somewhere else. Our whole family LOVES Disney World so much, that it's more important to go than worry about where we stay. As a matter of fact, we're staying Bonnet Creek our next trip because we can't justify the cost of onsite so close to Christmas and so soon after buying a new house in December.
Bottom line - ASMu is a wonderful resort, you'll have a wonderful time with your family and you won't have a moment of stress worrying that you spent more than you should have. That's a wonderful vacation
