MarkBarbieri
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It's easy here. The PTO puts together packages and sells them at very reasonable costs. So getting school supplies is as easy as writing a check.

I'm right there with you, along with all the other college expenses! One DD just graduated from college and one is a Junior, and boy, they are/were expensive. They both just got apartments, so I've got tons of PINK and PURPLE bedding, rugs, bath caddies, etc...and my youngest, a HS senior, is a boy. I wonder if I can bribe him to take pink/purple supplies to college.After spending a fortune on dd's college textbooks for fall, I'm longing for the days of binders and notepaper and Kleenex.
It would probably be cheaper than buying all new stuff.
LOL Me too! And I get the urge for new shoes and undies too.Ok, can I just vent that I don't have to buy school supplies?
I am utterly in LOVEwith school supplies...the smell of a new box of crayons can just curl my toes!
This reminded me that years ago, when my kids were in elementary school, someone offered to donate carpeting for the library, and the school couldn't accept it without it technically going out to bid, because they needed to put out specs (ie, fireproof) for the carpet, and then have the donated carpet fit the specs. Or something like that. LOLI just went out and found a nice carpet for my classroom for about $30 because my old one was getting a bit shabby.

It's got to be a false economy - 30 parents buying 30 sets of stationery has got to cost far more than the school bulk buying 300 sets of stationery in one go![]()
The fee that gets me is the "textbook rental fee" that I think it's the schools in Indiana charge.![]()
Ok, can I just vent that I don't have to buy school supplies?
I am utterly in LOVEwith school supplies...the smell of a new box of crayons can just curl my toes!
I should be grateful that our school supplies all the needs for the kids, but I would LOVE a "needs" list.Just sayin'.

I've spent about $70 so far on supplies for DD when she starts 4th grade this year. On her list was a 2GB flash drive and a clipboard?!
But that is great compared to the $300 supply fee that was mandatory at the small private school she attended from K5 to 3rd grade - she is in public school this year.
Compared to the $75 registration fee, $300 supply fee and the $400 per month tuition fee we were paying we are glad to pay the small list of fees they are asking this year which included things like field trips/class tshirts/ect. I would rather pay all that up front and be done with it. When she attended private school we were forever sending checks for stuff that I thought were covered by the small fortune we turned over at registration each year.
DD was excited to shop for school supplies this year since she has never had to do so. But they also gave the option of paying $75 for their supplies...I will so be paying that next year instead of hunting for 24 different color spiral notebooks needed and certain kinds of graph paper that does not exist. It has been an experience.
I can't vent about school supply lists because we don't even have them yet!! And school starts the end of this month. I just found out that we aren't even going to know who our kids' teachers are until 6 days before classes start. So by the time we get the lists from those individual teachers, all the best stuff will be gone. (Obviously I've got paper and pencils, etc. - I'm talking about one teacher wanting a binder vs. another wanting x type and color of folders...that sort of thing.)
We never get the lists til school actually starts which is annoying because you miss out on all the sales. I have learned over time not to stress about each and every item on the list. I no longer care if they want my kids to have 3 one inch binders, That doesn't work for ANY of my kids. We do one 3 inch binder with dividers and that works for them. If the school decides that isn't good enough let them get some for my kids!! Most of the stuff on sale is stuff my kids are too old for now anyway like crayons, markers and composition books. I did stock up on some pens and will probably get more but lord forbid they ask me for 3 green pens like they asked for last year. Honestly the stuff on the lists IMHO aren't even really needed because most of it is gone by winter break and my one OCD great student would of demanded I replenish the items if they were really needed. I am not cheap or looking for bargain basement items I just have learned that most stuff isn't even needed. Alot of times during the year something actually is needed like a poster board, index cards or a costume. The costume thing TICKED me off last year as they gave us 2 weeks notice on what country we had for world history day and so I had to pay full price from a costume store rather then risk not getting something in time off ebay.
I also have a son that is in private school so I have to pay his fees which are actually WAY down for football this year but the textbook list last year came about a week before school started. I used Half.com for as many as I could but they were still pricey but I am sure that is just a preview of college to come. Although I am hearing some colleges now have textbooks for e readers which I think is a great thing and would love to have that option.
My complaint is when something is required, but then never used. In 2nd grade I had to pay $10 for a special planner. The teacher never used it, b/c she kept waiting for all the kids to buy one. Well, either their parents wouldn't buy it or couldn't afford it. So I wasted $10.
Fortunately in 3rd and 4th grade, they DID use the planners.
I don't mind spending the money if the item will be utilized, in most cases.
This is directly related to the snowflake mentality-many schools won't allow teachers to use red pens because it hurts kids' feelings by having red marks on their papers. TOTALLY serious.
Yes, Indiana and our wonderful text book rental fees. Its funny, both of my boys went to the same high school and their book fees were always $250- $300. One graduated in 02 and the other in 09. DD started a new high school this year and hers are only $150. Same classes, just a big difference in price. So far I LOVE her new school.
We haven't gotten her supply list yet, but we have been picking up the basics. Unless they have some outlandish requests like the year I had to buy 7 packs of Swiffer refills, we should get out pretty cheap!
I'm not sure it's as much more as most people on the DIS think it is, but either way, schools should provide the basic materials that their children need to gain an education. Like I said, buying in bulk would cost people so much less than having individuals go out and buy their own.
Plus, how awful would it be if the teacher refused to spend their money paying for resources for their children? I'm guessing because of the very nature of the job, it rarely happens...kinda taking advantage of their good will.
We are allowed to get our own rugs as long as they have a fireproof label on them. The sad thing is, if I asked my principal to order me one, we would have to go through one of the approved vendors and it would likely cost much, much more than what I paid, which is why it would probably be denied if I asked for it. For some things, it's easier to buy it myself.This reminded me that years ago, when my kids were in elementary school, someone offered to donate carpeting for the library, and the school couldn't accept it without it technically going out to bid, because they needed to put out specs (ie, fireproof) for the carpet, and then have the donated carpet fit the specs. Or something like that. LOL
Yep, here we can use green or purple, but no red. Eventually though, those colors will also be associated with wrong answers.This is directly related to the snowflake mentality-many schools won't allow teachers to use red pens because it hurts kids' feelings by having red marks on their papers. TOTALLY serious.