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Last Wednesday was mine and DH's 31st wedding anniversary. We went to dinner and then to a nightclub for their weekly comedy night. We'd never been there before, got there about 8:45 (show started at 9:30) and paid $5 each for the cover charge.
It was early enough that we pretty much had our choice of seats. We didn't want to sit right in front, so chose seats on the side. We had a small table and another table was right next to us that would seat 4. We ordered drinks and just sat, enjoying each other's company, talking and sipping our drinks.
The place started filling up, and when the show was just about to start two couples asked if they could sit at the table next to us. Of course we said yes. It was obvious the two guys were already drunk and they were a little loud, but we figured they would quiet down when the show started.
Nope, they didn't.
One of the nightclub's employees caught my eye and she came over and told me the four would have to quiet down or they'd have to leave and she wanted ME to tell them! I told HER to tell them and she said, "oh, you're not with them?" And I said NO!! So she told them. Helped for a minute, then they went right back to laughing and talking loudly among themselves.
TWICE MORE they were told (by the bouncer guy) to quiet down. Each time they just got more obnoxious and louder. At one point the guy was walkie-talkie yapping on his cell phone with someone!!
We would have moved but there were no empty seats to move to. So we would either have to leave or try to tune them out. We tried tuning them out but it was pretty much impossible.
The bouncer guy came over once more and took their drinks away from them and said they were "cut off." He should have escorted them out the door as that just made them mad, and they got worse. The show ended about 10 minutes later.
I was tempted to ask the bouncer guy for our cover charge back, but I HATE confrontation so we just left. Not sure we'll ever go back because of that experience.
Should I have sucked it up and asked for our money back? Or should we just assume that drunks go hand in hand with a nightclub and there really was nothing we could do about it?
It was early enough that we pretty much had our choice of seats. We didn't want to sit right in front, so chose seats on the side. We had a small table and another table was right next to us that would seat 4. We ordered drinks and just sat, enjoying each other's company, talking and sipping our drinks.
The place started filling up, and when the show was just about to start two couples asked if they could sit at the table next to us. Of course we said yes. It was obvious the two guys were already drunk and they were a little loud, but we figured they would quiet down when the show started.
Nope, they didn't.

One of the nightclub's employees caught my eye and she came over and told me the four would have to quiet down or they'd have to leave and she wanted ME to tell them! I told HER to tell them and she said, "oh, you're not with them?" And I said NO!! So she told them. Helped for a minute, then they went right back to laughing and talking loudly among themselves.
TWICE MORE they were told (by the bouncer guy) to quiet down. Each time they just got more obnoxious and louder. At one point the guy was walkie-talkie yapping on his cell phone with someone!!
We would have moved but there were no empty seats to move to. So we would either have to leave or try to tune them out. We tried tuning them out but it was pretty much impossible.
The bouncer guy came over once more and took their drinks away from them and said they were "cut off." He should have escorted them out the door as that just made them mad, and they got worse. The show ended about 10 minutes later.
I was tempted to ask the bouncer guy for our cover charge back, but I HATE confrontation so we just left. Not sure we'll ever go back because of that experience.
Should I have sucked it up and asked for our money back? Or should we just assume that drunks go hand in hand with a nightclub and there really was nothing we could do about it?