I had all 4 wisdom teeth pulled last October. The pain was AWFUL. I was taking every pain med they were offering and nothing was helping.....NOTHING! I was crying myself to sleep...the pain was shooting down my neck for WEEKS. Something was seriously wrong. So I called the dentist went in he said it looked perfectly fine.....
so went home went back 2 days later told him I had dry socket and then told him to cure me. He said I was completely wrong....I told him to give me the medicated gauze anyways. He did....and within an hour!

MAGIC HAPPENED! Pain was completely gone.
Iwent in 5 days later.....he removed the gauze and Iw as on my way...pain free. Okay this was October 8th.....
now fast forward to December 23rd. I kept seeing small white strips hanging from the lower left socket.....I was convinced a octopus was growing in the socket. It was nasty. I would pull it and it would grow back. I thought it was the root.
Well I needed to fix the issue so I sanitized some sissors.....and reach back there and cut it out. Anyone guesss hwat it was????
THE GAUZE!! Yep!! 11pm at night.....I called my mom (was at my dads house this night) I completely had reopened the wound....and it was NASTY! Went in at 6 am the next morning....the surgeon thought it was amusing....I however was traumatized....not at all amused! Then he pulled out more gauze.............

Nasty!! Needless to say I eneded up having to go to someone else to be xrayed and get medication to heal the infection.....
If you are still in pain....something is wrong. You know your body better than anyone. I haven't read the whole thread but sounds an awful lot like dry socket. Birth control, drinking through a straw or smoking can cause all of this. Hope you feel better soon!!

It will get better! I promise!