Should I go to WDW without DH??? What would you do??

[aterriq]

As a DH, go but don't expect a perfectly clean house, , when you return.

 

[llori7]

Is your husband rejecting WDW because he wants to go other places with his wife and kids? If so, I think it would be really selfish to spend that time and money vacationing without him. But if he simply doesn't feel like a vacation at all, he doesn't mind you going without him, and money isn't an issue, I don't see anything wrong with having a little family trip with your cousin.

He just does not want to go to WDW again so soon. He thinks every year is too much. I am not spending all our vacation money to go on a trip without him. We also go to Virginia Beach every summer to see his family, we do another short trip somewhere, we do overnights at indoor waterparks. We have our share of family vacations. I just feel bad that he doesn't want to go with us, especially since the kids want to go back!!!

 

[llori7]

Being a DH myself I agree with this point. Saving for a DW trip can be hard with all the things families do these days. I would be soooo jealous if my DW and kids went w/o me but that would never happen b/c I love it too much.
However I can see where some times you might want to skip it for a year or two. That makes going again even more fun. You need to really dig deeper and see if he really won't mind you going or if he is just saying this to make you happy.
I could fill in as a DH if you need one, lol

Hope this works out for you.

He told me that he doesn't care if I go down every year, as long as he only has to go every 2-3. He speaks his mind, so if he didn't want me to go, he would tell me that we cannot go this year. He said he doesn't care if I go down the boys myself.

 

[Nancyg56]

He told me that he doesn't care if I go down every year, as long as he only has to go every 2-3. He speaks his mind, so if he didn't want me to go, he would tell me that we cannot go this year. He said he doesn't care if I go down the boys myself.

Then go and have a great time. My DH could not go with us on some vacations and I took the kids with my sister and her kids. The dynamic is different and the kids have fun with other family members.