Should I ask her?

[TheHiddenMickey]

I can't believe I'm making one of these threads . . .

Ok. There is this girl that I've liked for about a year. I've been liking her from a distance, and we've never really talked until recently.

There's another guy I know, not a good friend or anything, that I found out also likes her and is planning to ask her to our banquet.

This guy is way to immature for her. He dumps girls all the time. I just don't think she would last more than a day with him.

So, we're both going to see her tommorow. Should I try and ask her before him. If not what should I do?

I'm half hoping everyone says no . . . I'd be scared out of my mind . . .

 

[Lil_Tink]

What do you have to lose? Good luck with whatever your decison is

 

[TheHiddenMickey]

What do you have to lose? Good luck with whatever your decison is

. . . alot of pride i guess

My family is good friends with her parents, and if she said no it would sort of be emberassing.

 

[Loves Disney]

. . . alot of pride i guess

My family is good friends with her parents, and if she said no it would sort of be emberassing.

What wouldn't be embarrassing?? I say go for it! Ask her, 'cause who knows, she may be wishing you would. Life is too fragile and too short to be lived in a bubble. Sometimes, taking a chance is for the better. If you don't ask her, you may regret it. At least if you ask her you know. Some girls may rely on the guys asking them and if the guys don't ask....who will? Idk, this is just my two cents.

 

[PatriotsRule]

I really think you should go for it. In a way, it's better to regret something you did rather than something you didn't do.

Good luck, whatever you choose!

 

[Daretodisney2]

life is too short to sit and watch it go by.......do it!!

 

[Princess Ash]

life is too short to sit and watch it go by.......do it!!

Well said in your second post!!!

Not really relavent...but a little bit and made me think of this bulletin I saw on myspace... so I'm a myspace addict, so sue me.

8th grade

stared at the girl next to me.

She was

my so called "best friend".

I

stared

at her

long, silky hair,

and wished she was

mine.

But she didnt notice me like that, i

knew it.

After class she

walked up to me and asked

me for the notes she had missed the day

before and

handed them to

her. She said "thanks"

and gave me a kiSs on

the cheek. I wanna

tell her, i

want her to

know that i don`t

wanna Be just friends, i love her but i`m

just too shy,

and i don`t know

why. .



11th Grade

The phone rang. on

the other end

it was

her. She was

in tears,

mumbling on

and on

about how her love had broke her heart.

She asked

me to come over

because she didn't want to be alone, so i

did. As i sat

next to her on

the sofa, i stared at

her soft eyes, wishing

she was mine.

after 2

hours,

a drew barrymore movie,

& 3 bags of

chips, she decided to go

to sleep. She

looked

at me,

said "thanks" and

gave me a kiSs on the

cheek. i wAnna tell her,

i want her to

kno

that i don`t

wanna be just

friends, i love her but

im just too shy, and idk wHy



Senior Year

The day before prom she walked to my

locker. "My date is Sick"

she said; he`s not qonna

go. well i didnt

have a dAte and

in 8th qrade we

made a promiSe that if

neither of us had dates we would go

together

just as "best

friends". So

we did.



Prom niqht

After everything was over i was standing

at her

front

door step. i stared

at her, She smiled at me

I want her

to be mine,

but she

doesn`t

think of me like that

and i kno it.

then she said "i Had the

best time,

thanks!" and gave me a kiss

on the cheek. i wanna

tell her,

i want her to kno that i don`t

want to be just

friends, i love her

but i`m just too shy,

and i

don`t kNow why



Graduation Day

a

day passed, then a week, then a month.

before i could blink, it

was graduation day. i watched as her

perfect

body

floated like an anqel

up on staqe to qet her

diploma. i wanted her to be mine, but she

didnt notice

me like that, and i knew

it. before everyone

went home, she came to me in her smock

and

hat, and

cried as i hugged her.

then she lifted

her

head from my shOulder and said, you`re

my

best friend,

thanks!" and gave

me a kiss on the Cheek.

i wanna tell her, i want her to know that

i

don`t wanna

be just friends, i

love her but i`m just

too shy, and i don`t know why



A Few Years Later

now i sit in the pews of the church. that

girl is gettinq married

now. i watched her say "i do" and drive

off

to her new

life, married to another man.

i wanted her

tO be mine, but she didn`t See me like

that

and i knew

it. But before she

Drove away, she came to

me n said you came!" She said. "thanks!"

and kissed me

on the cheek. i

wanna tell her, i want

her tO

know that i dont wanna be just

friends, i love

her but i`m just too

shy, and i don`t

know why }]|



Funeral

Years

passed,

i looked

down at the coffin

of a girl who used to

be my "best friend". at the service they

read a diary

entry she had wrote in

her hiqh school years.

This is what it

read: i stare at him wishing

he was

mine, but he doesn`t notice

me like that, and i

know it. i wanna tell him, i wAnt him to

kno

that i

don`t wanna be just friends,

i love him but i`m

just too shy, and i don`t know why. i wish

he

would tell

me he loved me . . .i wish i

did too . i

thought to mySelf, and i Cried

 

[TheHiddenMickey]

Hmm.

I'll let you guys no what I decided. I'll post tommorow night.

 

[Princess Ash]

Just remember...you don't want to be left with "what if"?

To me, the embarrassment would be worth knowing if it could work or not...

GOOD LUCK!!!

 

[The Dark Dancer]

I say go for it! Girls admire confidence so, have no fear! The worst that could happen is her saying no. If she does say no, just brush it off and go about your business.
Then you can make good eye contact and flirt after the other guy (as you said he most likely would) breaks up with her and who knows what'll happen.


Ash, that was a very inspiring and sad poem/story. I loved it! So sad though....but it seems to be so true if you think about how complicated life is today in relationships.....thank you for posting it!

 

[2HOT2touch]

Ok, why do guys "admire from afar"? its so annoying, how are we suposed to know you like us, if you dont do anything about it? If you want a girl to like you, you have to atleast talk to her and flirt with her, otherwise she will go after another guy that she knows likes her.

So I say ask her, it might be a huge surprise for her but if you dont say anything to her, your going to end up like the guy in that poem.

 

[jenbabe13]

i say ask her...before ur friend does. good luck!

 

[jenbabe13]

oh yeah if she says no, at least u kno she doesnt like u and u can move on to someone else who might. ..yeah i worded that weird so it kinda sounds mean but i didnt mean it in that way.. i just am terrible at wording things.

 

[MuNkY]

It seems like the situation I was in.

So I say go for it. Don't let a good opportunity pass you by.

 

[TheHiddenMickey]

She wasn't there . . . PHEW!

More time to worry.

 

[The Dark Dancer]

Don't worry, hun! Just go for it!


Good Luck!

 

[Cinderella94]

If you don't wanna ask her, at least tell her how you feel about her.

I just told my crush of 5 months how I felt about him, and that gave him the confidence to tell me that he liked me also. Now we possibly could be going out sometime soon.....

 

[Princess Ash]

If you don't wanna ask her, at least tell her how you feel about her.

I just told my crush of 5 months how I felt about him, and that gave him the confidence to tell me that he liked me also. Now we possibly could be going out sometime soon.....

Good for you Sammi!!!

 

[The Dark Dancer]

That's great Sammi! Congrats!

 

[VolleyballQt07]

just so everyone isn't freaked out about this i am a girl and not a guy......i am having the same problem with a guy who i really like. i've known him for 3 yrs. but he's really cute this year so its really weird being around him. i see him like 3 times a week because i'm homeschooled so i go to his school to play sports and that's when i see him. he's like 5'9 and i'm like 5'6. my friend used to like him but now she doesn't so that means he's kinda free. my other friend said i should ask him out but i don't think thats right. in the summer it'll be really fun cause he lives 14 houses down from me so i'll get to see him a lot! but as for you, i think you should ask her out.