I think I can help with some of these questions, so here it goes--
"I have two more questions: Can we drive our rental car over to the Poly and then use the monorail? Or is it easier to just drive yourself to whichever park you are going to that day?"
The bus to TTC runs every 15 minutes and it is a short walk to the Poly. They are trying to enforce their parking. Also when I stayed at the CR in 2003 and had use of Poly pool because of rehab we were carded. Also in 2004 when we stayed at the Poly they were walking along asking people for their room keys.
"And, does Shades have a bar, or a place we can order drinks in the evening, and take them to our room? And do they sell wine or liquor there at all?"
Yes, the Evergreen Sports bar allowed us to take drinks to our room and poolside in 2002.
SeeDisney - Yes you can take a boat from the Poly to the Wilderness Lodge or Ft. Wilderness, but you can't park at the Poly to use the ferry. I would walk to the Poly, get the boat then afterward take the boat to the CR, ride the monorail to the TTA (only one stop) and catch the SoG bus home. The bus should be there every 15 minutes and it is a short ride to Sog.
However to go to the water parks, DD, AK, or MGM I would always use my own transportation.
Hope this helps
