Background: I have two boys, and I am no longer with their dad. We have been separated for over two years, and everything is friendly and amicable between us.
Now, as everyone knows, is Back To School time. We have always done a pretty even 50/50 split of school supply/clothes/etc. shopping for the boys.
I budgetted my money and had it put away to pay for my part of this. (BTW kids are expensive, as we all know!!) As well as budgetting money for my birthday trip in September.
I took the boys and got what I said I would and let him know what else was needed. He told me he didn't have
ANY!!!! money to get them
ANYTHING!!! He
HAD!! to buy a new cellphone. It is not for work, he doesn't have to have one for work. He just wanted a new cellphone.
I cried, had a panic attack, got livid, calmed down, and now I am just crushed. I told my boss I was rethinking my vacation now, and he said "HECK NO!! YOU ARE GOING!! You need to get out of this office and do something for yourself for a change."
We do not have an agreement or anything, since we have been able to agree on everything in regards to the boys. He also knows that I won't let the boys go without something they need.
He knew I was saving money for my bday trip, so I guess he assumed I would cover his portion til whenever he could???
This leads to my problem.... The hotel is paid for and I have AP's (at least I do not have to worry about this part of it), but my food budget just got cut drastically. I worked my buns off this summer..... I guess I have to go back to working 50 hours a week......
I know I am lucky that my total trip isn't in jeopardy like I have read that some people are going through. But I am just really pissed right now!!