SEPT. 19th First Time Cruise -MEET?

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Trying to figure this all out. Just found this site about five days ago. So neat. I will be going on our first cruise this September 19th. The western one. Traveling with my mom, son Trevor age 10, and daughter Becca soon to be 3 years old. How does this meet thing work? Anyone have kids around the same age? Thanks all for all your great insights.
Kimberly