making people laugh always boosts my self esteem, or having someone compliment my personality or tell me that i'm funny puts me on top of the world.
Like today at work two people told me what a great girl I was and it totally boosted my self esteem.
i'd rather hear 'you're hilarious' than 'you're pretty'
superficial-wise--- i'd say a bit of eyeliner on my waterline usually does the trick -- i dunno why, but i always feel much prettier when i have a bit of eyeliner on.