Howdy!
Okay, so how does this work exactly???
This will be my first PTR ever.
(so ummm, please pardon our appearance – as this is a work in progress.)
And uh - please ignore the spelling and grammatical mistakes.
Oh, and please feel free to add your input, I love getting ideas from fellow Disers
We Are Going To See The World for the First Time (again).
I say “again” because although I have been to Disney twice before in my adult life and twice as a child, it would seem for some reason anything pre-DS doesn't seem to count as much. I know it will be like going for the first time again because we will be experiencing it through our son's eyes this time.
(cause he’s a self proclaimed pirate – duh), George (cause he is sooo curious and gets into EVERYTHING), our Drama Llama (cause Drama Queen is not fitting for a boy), Boy Genius (cause he is UNBELIEVABLY smart for his age), and Old Man (because he is (too) wise beyond his years). Leon will be turning 6 while we are there so we will be celebrating his birthday Disney style, along with it being his first trip, as well as Thanksgiving. He’s a great kid, but a handful. (Read extremely impulsive and intensely hyperactive). The principle knows him very well (and he’s only in kindergarten)
Best Supporting Actor & First Mate: RON – my "I'm just going for the ride", “you decide”, “do whatever you think is best” DH35, a.k.a. Matey (as The Capt. calls him), SuperDad (we are a super hero family) and Charlie Brown (because mostly he’s a Good Man (Charlie Brown), but other times he can be a real Block Head). My husband is my Knight in Shining Armor, he does everything in his power to make Leon and I happy. This man works all day and then comes home and does dishes, tidies up the house, and he even does laundry. He is also the man who is letting me go nuts in planning this trip (with in reason
)
Then there’s me: JILL – 39, a.k.a. SuperMom (my powers are – have eyes in the back of my head, can spot trouble coming a mile away and has healing hugs and kisses) and Jillo, Cruise Director (remember the Love Boat – I always wanted to be Julie) funny though, I’ve never been on a cruise, YET. I am a SAHM (stay-at home mom), who baby sits 3 kids to earn money for Disney. I love my family, photography, and planning trips.
Some background:]I used to work for an airline, so I took plenty of trips while I was single and a few for the first couple years of marriage. However Fibromyalgia forced me to go part-time and money became tight. That, along with poor financial planning, the birth of my son, a car accident that permanently screwed up my back, and my job being outsourced to Canada ultimately put us into the poorhouse. Our debts have debts. But despite that we always managed to take one or two vacations (well, we called them vacations, they where really just weekend getaways). My in-laws have a campsite in PA on the Delaware River, so we would stay with them a few days and then tack on an outing to Sesame Place, or a nearby water park. Money has always been an issue for us (especially DH), it is the reason we only have one child, as opposed to the Brady Bunch. So for us to go on this trip, it is BIG!
Okay, so how does this work exactly???
This will be my first PTR ever.
(so ummm, please pardon our appearance – as this is a work in progress.)
And uh - please ignore the spelling and grammatical mistakes.
Oh, and please feel free to add your input, I love getting ideas from fellow Disers
Chapters Listed by Post #
[*]#1 (you are looking at it) Cast Members and Background - who we and what we are about
[*]#3 How this trip came to be - More background info
[*]#4 Information Please - the who, what, & where I found my info
[*]#8 We are going When?? -Dates
[*]#10 Our Home Away from Home/ Getting There!/ Tickets Please! - Hotel, Flight, & Park tickets
[*]#22-23 ADR’s a.k.a Automatic Dieter’s Remorse - Dining Dilema
[*]#31 Food Glorious Food - More about Dining
[*]#38 Mickey Mouse makes me cry! - I am just a sap for that mouse
[*]#43 Hi, My name is Jill, …and I am a list maker - a little more about me and my OCD tendancies
[*]#44 My Disney Planning Lists - Lists, lists, & more lists
[*]#52 Happy Birthday to Leon, Happy Birthday to Leon, Happy Birthday to Yoooou - Birthday surprises
[*]#53-54 A Tisket a Tasket a Great Big Birthday Basket....- More Birthday Surprises
We Are Going To See The World for the First Time (again).
I say “again” because although I have been to Disney twice before in my adult life and twice as a child, it would seem for some reason anything pre-DS doesn't seem to count as much. I know it will be like going for the first time again because we will be experiencing it through our son's eyes this time.
Okay so here are the Cast Members:
Our Star : LEON – my DS5, a.k.a. Prince Leon (first (and only) son, grandson, nephew, etc.. –you get the picture – spoiled), The Capt.
(cause he’s a self proclaimed pirate – duh), George (cause he is sooo curious and gets into EVERYTHING), our Drama Llama (cause Drama Queen is not fitting for a boy), Boy Genius (cause he is UNBELIEVABLY smart for his age), and Old Man (because he is (too) wise beyond his years). Leon will be turning 6 while we are there so we will be celebrating his birthday Disney style, along with it being his first trip, as well as Thanksgiving. He’s a great kid, but a handful. (Read extremely impulsive and intensely hyperactive). The principle knows him very well (and he’s only in kindergarten)
Best Supporting Actor & First Mate: RON – my "I'm just going for the ride", “you decide”, “do whatever you think is best” DH35, a.k.a. Matey (as The Capt. calls him), SuperDad (we are a super hero family) and Charlie Brown (because mostly he’s a Good Man (Charlie Brown), but other times he can be a real Block Head). My husband is my Knight in Shining Armor, he does everything in his power to make Leon and I happy. This man works all day and then comes home and does dishes, tidies up the house, and he even does laundry. He is also the man who is letting me go nuts in planning this trip (with in reason
)
Some background:]
** Next installment - post #3 How this trip came to be - More background info
I never thought it would get that far, but my lawyer said it was a good thing. We started to get excited, I told Ron that after everything I had gone through for the past 4 years, I deserved this trip and that I was going to take at least 3 thousand if not more (depending on how much we got) for Disney and he can have the rest to pay some bills. He now started to get excited, he had some grandiose ideas about what we would do with the money – go to Disney (the way I really wanted to go, pay off all our bills, buy a new WORKING van, and more. He was getting out of hand. When Ron dreams, he dreams BIG! Too big sometimes – think Ralph Cramden from the Honeymooners. I told him that he should not get too excited, I really did not expect to get that much, I would have been happy with $10,000. But he had $-signs in his eyes. He had a much, much, much larger number in his head. And although I KNEW it was unlikely, it was infectious, I started to think “what-if”. My new motto for Disney was Go Big or Go Home! I became hopeful that we would get to stay on property, AND do the dining plan, we could stay longer than just an extended weekend. I could see all the things I wanted to see!!!! It was all I could talk about. I devoured the UG and started on the Passporter. I went out and bought Birnbaums for Kids to read to Leon as a bedtime story. (Which he loved, BTW. He still asks for it every so often. I highly recommend it, as a way of getting your kids excited about the trip).
I dressed up like a banana and did the happy dance
). Another reason we considered it was because with Leon being out of school, we could take some extra time and drive
there, thus saving money on airfare. The reason it was ultimately nixed was the prospect of the heat of August and the crowds.
I don’t deal with either very well. The meds I am on for FMS make me very sensitive to the sun and heat, and I tend to get more fatigued than at other times of the year. I started thinking about the toll it would take on me and how that would effect everyone’s good time. So on to the next dates.
) and the bonus was that if we choose the week before leading up to his Birthday, then he would only be out of school for three days because it was on Thanksgiving weekend. Great idea, right?
. So we went back and forth with those dates as well.
:
: Wait, wait, wait…. Seriously?? Leave on Thanksgiving Day??? No Way! Your mom will flip! She’ll hate me.
: Don’t worry about it. She’ll be fine. She’ll understand… We will go on Thanksgiving and everything will be fine.
WHAT!!!!???!!!! When did this happen?
and maybe next year we could plan another trip where everyone could come too. (More on that next year thing later)
. Not only has she done tons for Ron and Leon, but she has been there for me too in many ways. Both of Ron’s parents have. However we don’t always see eye to eye and that’s fine – no two people ever really do, but I have learned to tread a bit more lightly around her. That said her meeting up with us is just not something I want.
Last year my mom had asked me when we would be going to Disney, as she knew we had been saving up to go for a few years now, because anytime I was asked what I wanted for my Bday or Christmas I would say ‘money for Disney’. I told her that we had hoped to have enough to go next year. At which time she advised me that she would be coming too. Huh?????
It’s Official – 9 days in Disney!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
also you and I have the same amount 3,000

My mom (and dad!) are just the same! We moved from MI to SC and got the guilt trip from my mom as soon as DH got his job offer here ("how can you move?" "easy...I'm packing a truck" "but I won't be able to see the boys" my response "do you come see them now??" I know-not nice but I'm so beyond that with her!) We're really trying to be on a budget for our trip too-DH likes to spend but I'm a bargin shopper-always have been and always will be! Can't wait to hear more!