Kathy - thanks for the great suggestions!

I'll definately check out my library this week and get a card and see if I can find that book. I do keep tabs on every penny and DH and I are definate bargin shoppers!

We aren't destitute. We are able to pay our bills, but it just seems like things keep coming up and there isn't much left over. I had budgeted out $375.00/month for our disneyworld vacation, but then the car blew up (well, not literally, but needed $1500.00 worth of work in 1 month, yes we looked at trading it in for a newer car, but they couldn't get the payments we wanted for them, so we didn't do it), and then DH could no longer put off a cap he needed for his tooth. The cats both need teeth cleaning (the professional kind) - but we're putting that off for the moment... so we've only managed to put away $200 where we should be at $700 by now.
I've started selling on Amazon.com and done pretty well there. I've also just signed up for E-bay, but my item isn't selling, and I don't want to invest a bunch of money in trying to sell the blasted thing. We're going through and finding other things to sell as well. We're renting out the storage space in our garage to a friend of ours starting next month, so there's an extra $20/ month. DH is talking about starting his own gem cutting business this year with a friend, which would make some money, but it's a substantail investment to start with, so they'll probably just break even, but we are providing the space for it out of our garage, so we can deduct that next year.
We don't have a 401K right now. DH is going to sign up with his work one starting next month. Thankfully (and I know everyone says this) we're young and have more immediate needs for that $$$.
As for our grocery budget - We only spend about $120-$180/month. This includes the pet supplies. We're training our boxer to be a show dog, so we're hoping to win some prizes there, but if we don't - that's okay too. He's our "furkid" for now.

We shop at Trader Joe's, Albertson's (mostly for cleaning supplies and manufactured/ processed products like milk - which we don't buy every month since it's now upwards of $3.50/gallon of non-fat), and Henry's (aka Wild Oats)(for great, cheap, produce and often whatever cut of meat is on sale). We don't have the other places you mentioned in our area. So for 2 people, I think we do well in the grocery department.
