I am so sorry to hear this has happened. I visited Rita's site a lot until I found the Dis. I would be so lost if something like that happened here. I have many very good relationships here, but I only talk to them through the Dis. No phone numbers, no email addresses. How sad I would be if the Dis went away, and those relationships were also gone. My heart goes out to all those Clubhouse folks who are dealing with the loss of the site and their friends.
Thanks to Pete and his mods and masters who vigilantly keep the Dis free of this kind of thing. I remember that horrible day when we were "attacked" with horrible subjects and words. I am so glad it was taken care of.
Linnie: welcome to the Dis. I hope you're able to heal from this tragedy and, perhaps, find a home here.