I have been reading the message boards off and on for some time now (LOVE all the information that is shared- thanks!!) but this is my first post. I have been following the discussion regarding this topic and want to offer my two-cents....
IMO this a matter of perspective - the person that goes through line and looks for a table thinks that they have arrived at THE point "first" and are entitled to seating, but the person that goes directly to the tables and finds a seat before proceeding to the buffet line believes that they are the ones to have arrived at THE point "first"; neither feeling they are being rude, and both (potentially) feeling in the right.
I am a person who travels with DH, and 3 DS, as well as brother, his wife, and their four children, and for our upcoming third cruise (in 24 days - woo hoo) we are also traveling with my mother - it would not be likely that we, a party of 12 people, would go through line and find adequate seating in order that would allow us to enjoy each other's company, so we would find tables and then proceed to the buffet. If we went into Topsiders and found that there were no tables that accomodated our group, we mostly likely would leave and return when we could find seats together, something that would be impossible if we had gone through the buffet line
before looking for a place to sit.
It wouldn't have occurred to me until after I read these boards that I was being rude or inconsiderate of any one else.
