Sad Day

[Feralpeg]

In about 45 minutes, I will take my beloved Griffin to the vet to have him put down. Griffin is a 13 year old Golden Retriever. He has been a wonderful dog, but has gone downhill the past couple of years. I was ready to have him put down about six months ago and the vet talked me out of it. He put him on an additional pain pill. It helped for awhile, but no longer. I could up the dosage, but what would be the point? If all he does is sleep, there is no point. He has no quality of life.

I don't know why I'm posting this other than it has been eating me up. Trying to make the decision to do this has been so hard. In my mind, I know it is time and that it is the best thing for him, but my heart doesn't seem to understand.

If you can spare a prayer for the peaceful passing of my beautiful dog, it would be appreciate.

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Absolutely.

FROM FRIEND TO FRIEND

You're giving me a special gift,
So sorrowfully endowed,
And through these last few cherished days,
Your courage makes me proud.

But really, love is knowing
When your best friend is in pain,
And understanding earthly acts
Will only be in vain.

So looking deep into your eyes,
Beyond, into your soul,
I see in you the magic, that will
Once more make me whole.

The strength that you possess,
Is why I look to you today,
To do this thing that must be done,
For it's the only way.

That strength is why I've followed you,
And chose you as my friend,
And why I've loved you all these years...
My partner 'til the end.

Please, understand just what this gift,
You're giving, means to me,
It gives me back the strength I've lost,
And all my dignity.

You take a stand on my behalf,
For that is what friends do.
And know that what you do is right,
For I believe it too.

So one last time, I breathe your scent,
And through your hand I feel,
The courage that's within you,
To now grant me this appeal.

Cut the leash that holds me here,
Dear friend, and let me run,
Once more a strong and steady dog,
My pain and struggle done.

And don't despair my passing,
For I won't be far away,
Forever here, within your heart,
And memory I'll stay.

I'll be there watching over you,
Your ever faithful friend,
And in your memories I'll run,
...a young dog once again.

In Memory of Asta, Feb. 1997
(c) Karen Clouston

 

[agnes!]

Prayers said for your beloved canine family-member (and also for you and your daughter as well).

Peg - I'm so sorry for your impending loss.

agnes!

 

[mickeyboat]

Denae

 

[The Mystery Machine]

 

[twinmomplus2new]

I am so very sorry, I had to put my Sophie down last year, and I still to this day am actually ill and sick at heart when I think of her. please accept my heartfelt...















The rainbow bridge poem didn not comfort me, But this one did.











The Last Battle



If it should be that I grow frail and weak

And pain should keep me from my sleep,

Then you must do what must be done,

For this--the last battle--can't be won.

You will be sad I understand,

Don't let grief then stay your hand.

For on this day, more than the rest,

Your love and friendship must stand the test.

We have had so many happy years,

What is to come can hold no fears

You'd not want me to suffer, so.

When the time comes, please let me go.

Take me to where to my needs they'll tend,

Only, stay with me till the end

And hold me firm and speak to me

Until my eyes no longer see.

I know in time you will agree

It is a kindness you do to me.

Although my tail its last has waved,

From pain and suffering I have been saved.

Don't grieve that it must be you

Who has to decide this thing to do?

We've been so close--we two--these years,

Don't let your heart hold any tears.

 

[ckay87]

So, so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself today, you and your pup are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[Feralpeg]

Prayers said for your beloved canine family-member (and also for you and your daughter as well).

Peg - I'm so sorry for your impending loss.

agnes!

Thank you. Kendall doesn't know yet. I don't plan on telling her until after her classes today. We talked about how it wouldn't be too far in the future before she left for school, but I know it will still hit her really hard. I'm dreading that call.

 

[live4christp1]

 

[ZachnElli]

I've been there with a golden and a golden mix myself. It's so hard!! They were in so much pain, it was the right decision.

 

[cabanafrau]

I really feel your pain. It's nearly eight years now I was in your shoes and I still feel the sense of loss. Luckily the intense sadness does pass, but we do miss them forever. I wish you a peaceful goodbye to your beloved friend.

 

[Breezy_Carol]

I know how hard this is.

When our previous dog died 2 years ago I swore I would never have another dog because the heartbreak is too hard. Now I have 2 goldens that we got from a rescue last year. I am tearing up reading this.

 

[suejai]

I understand what you are feeling. Give yourself some time before you drive away from the vets office.

 

[KAMKIM]

My thoughts are with your family -

 

[robinb]

I'm sorry . I know how difficult the decision can be.

 

[Mickeyistheman]

Oh Ferla, I am so very sorry to hear of this news. I wish you lots and lots of

We lost our Sassy on Aug. 4th and had her for 15 wonderful years.

 

[DVCLiz]

Thinking of you today, Peg.

 

[mishasmom]

So Sorry you are going through this. I wish there was something I could say to make this easier. Please know you are doing the right thing.

 

[kirbydog48]

I'm so sorry you have to face this today. Just know that it's the most loving thing you are doing for your dog, even though it totally stinks for us humans. I'm sure your dog had a wonderful life.

 

[java]

So very sorry for your loss. And may your sweetie have a smooth and painfree passage over the rainbow bridge.