I'm sorry but I don't fully agree that people should not be disappointed and want a little more than just to make whole. First we are not talking a resort that charges minimal rates, at least when it comes to deluxe but true with almost every resort motel 6 is $60 a night, Disney budget is $120, best western is $100, Disney is $225, Marriott Hilton is $$175, Disney is $450. Sorry Disney is in a whole different ball park, they are in the business to give you an all inclusive vacation.
At a year out or even 6 months out, I book a room at GF CL main building, and walk in and get a standard room in an outer building, that would severely change my ressies and my mood. Then you know you paid In advance for that room, in full before you ever got there, 2 months in advance. Unlike my Marriott who did not charge me until I get there.
So yes if I expect more than just to make whole it is because I for six months or more thought Disney who is in the business of vacations to give me as close as possible and if they can not to at least compensate me for the mess up even if not fully there fault.
Usually I find Disney good at it, and I have never had to beg, I just explain. It happened years ago to us in DL, we were booked in two rooms for DLH different buildings. I was already on property when I get a call, the pipes burst in one area of frontier building and they had to move that room to magic building on the same floor as the other room. I explained that our divorce was still not the best relationship, at all possible is there any other room anywhere that is not on the same floor at least if not in the same building. He came back and said we could move one to GC, I'm like are you sure that is all, he came back and said if you wait an hour we may be able to get you on different floors. I said I will take that, we ended up on different floors, it was a down grade, but they had offered us an upgrade, I refused it, I don't like the GC we need more space when all together.
I have been upgraded, mainly because Disney has been unable to give me reasonable accommodations, I usually try for 3 days and then tell them the problems and they move us. No I don't expect to pay for the update, it is Disney responsibility to accommodate, if they can't, I will try but when it does not work, and Disney will admit that it is them not me, then they change me. I never go in expecting an upgrade, and don't demand it right away, I look at it, I will try, I will give feed back and I hope someday in the future Disney will understand how to accommodate my type of disability better, and I will say they have in many cases.
But when they take my money, well in advance, they need to cut off all incoming ressies at 2 months if they are overselling, or they need to make whole and give extra, because it usually is there problem, and should not be my problem.