We will be celebrating our 30th anniversary there this fall. We were doing a VR but unfortunately that doesn't look like it is going to happen....

We're still going to have a fabulous time though!
We have done our 15th, 25, 26, 27, 28, and 29th anniversaries there and always make sure to do some extra special things. We have done the California Grill during the fireworks several times. It is nice to go out on the deck or you can make a point of requesting a table by the window on your reservation, indicate it is a special night, and be willing to wait for a window table. Very worth it. Our favorite waiter there is Walter and he is just awesome. Cali Grill is not currently taking reservations as they don't have a date for the reopen yet that I'm aware of.
Love the pearl idea at Epcot and we have done it several times. My favorite pieces of jewelry are things we got there. If you search my name you can see some of my pieces in the Pick a Pearl thread. If you do this, do it at Epcot, not Downtown Disney! The folks at Epcot are great and I won't even bother telling you how wretched our experience was at DTD.
Citrico's is also a fantastic romantic place for dinner. Love it and the food is awesome! We sat where you could see the open kitchen and the head chef made such a wonderful fuss over us! It was just lovely!
We treated ourselves to the Waynama Safari during one of our stays at AKL. You have to be staying there to do this but if you have never stayed at AKL I would consider staying there to do it or do a split stay if you want to do another resort as well. Splurge and do savanna view if you can swing it. You go out on a truck into the AKL savanna with a guide and then enjoy an amazing dinner from bread course through dessert with wine pairings all the way through at Jiko. Our second fav thing we have ever done at Disney. We also love getting a drink at the Victoria Lakes bar there and going to sit out by the fire pit out back on the savanna. The feel of this resort is just so different than any of the other resorts.
If you are not staying at one of the resorts serviced by the water taxis, go take an evening ride on one anyways! So pretty to see MK at night from the water. Take a water taxi from MK docks over to the WL and go take in that resort at night. Unreal. We've stayed there on 4 trips and it is just so pretty. If you go over very late at night you can get a drink at the Territory Lounge and go sit in the lobby and just take it in.
Our absolute fav thing we have ever done together to celebrate was actually a gift to us from an amazing cast member after some awful things happened during our trip 2 years ago. He arranged this for us, but you can do this for yourselves as well. Hire a boat to take you out on the Seven Seas Lagoon during Wishes. They will generally take you out for a lovely tour of the lagoon and show you some of the features you might otherwise not see and then they will stop out on the lake lined up with the castle so you can take it all in. Bring a bottle of lovely champagne, order a mini-castle cake or something decadent to nibble on and take it all in. Our fav fav fav thing to do and we will be doing this again this year. You can also do something similar during Illuminations at Epcot if you prefer that show. For us, its Wishes!
Hope some of those ideas either help! Make sure that you let your resort know you are celebrating and that it is on each of your reservations and have an absolutely great time!!!!!!
