i mean, yeah. by the tone of your post, i feel like you think you are taking the moral highground, when i didnt think that was even the question here. i clearly have the moral highground. entitlement is the feeling that you have the right to something that you didnt earn, which is exactly what you are saying with the airplane analogy. we get upgraded all the time at hotels, but of course we dont deserve it and deserve lesser perks! you paid for business class while someone paid for first...of course they deserve more perks. someone paid $70000 for their car while i paid $400000, of course they deserve all the newest bells and whistles and i dont. i mean, i could go on with examples forever. i doubt you would say "how come that person gets more nights on disney property even though we both own
dvc". well, they paid more for more points. more points (more money) means more nights. more money (paying more direct with disney) comes with more perks. whether someone who pays more deserves more i dont think is the argument at all right? yes, well take the upgrade at the hotel, but know full well we didnt deserve it and are grateful for the luck.