Thanks for the good thoughts and wishes for DSM. She has been ill for a very long time, and they are now deciding it looks like cancer. I can't believe this is taking them so long to decide! She has been ailing for nearly 2 years now! Dad took care of Mom right up to her death from breast cancer. It was hard on all of us. I don't want him to have to do that again. He gets so stressed. It is hard too, because neither of them really understands what the doctors are telling them. That is why I go along.