I'm also voting Artist Point, although I love the California Grill as well. We first ate at Artist Point last year when we were staying at CBR, so I'll ring in on the transportation issue.
We took the CBR bus to the Magic Kingdom, then took the boat launch from MK to the Wilderness Lodge. I have this recorded as one of the most magical parts of that trip .. sun just starting to set, warm weather, sailing past the Contemporary .. it was great.
After dinner, we planned to take the bus to DTD to do some shopping befor heading back to CBR. The bus to DTD, unfortunately, is WL's weak link (we've found this to be kinda always true since we've stayed at WL since then). What we did instead was to take the TTC bus that comes to the WL, and walk from there over to the Polynesian. Then we took their (strangely more reliable) bus to DTD.
If I was planning a night out, though, (and you were game for using that transportation plan), might I suggest dinner at AP, then over to the Polynesian for dessert at Kona? Yummy food, and great atmospheres, plus a visit to both super-romantic resorts. Sounds like fun to me.
