I'm struggling with something very similar. We are going in 50 days

and I still haven't decided on where we are staying

, I have like three different resorts booked. It will be DH and I, our oldest who will be 5, and twins who will be 2. I cannot decide whether we prefer the benefit of club level with snacks for the kids, breakfast, etc. especially since we will only be doing half days so there will be resort time. If we do a one bedroom villa we will have the space and a washer/dryer but no club level amenities.
We looked at AoA but honestly prefer something we can either walk or monorail to one of more parks from, so we're down to Poly, GF, Beach, and Yacht. We are debating AKL 1 bedroom as well because we think the girls will like the animals. There are so many choice, it's crazy! Anyway, from the extensive research I have done and hours of my life spent mulling resorts, AoA is great if you are good with buses everywhere (or plan on driving yourself), I think the beach club villas would be next (and they are currently being refurbished). BC also has some one bedroom suites. Beach club is good because you can walk/boat to both Epcot and HS and it has Stormalong Bay. On the same note, I have heard it's hard to keep track of kids there because it's so big and that makes me hesitant to go with my twins, since we are outnumbered afterall. If you can swing it, Poly and Grand Floridian both have suites and monorail to MK. There is also Baylake Tower and Grand Floridian Villas to consider but availability is slim.