Well, here's sort of an update.
If you'll remember, he doesnt like holidays, thinks of them as any other day etc.
Well Monday the girls and I went and got our tree, a friend of mine with a truck was going to deliver it here for me. Yesterday the tree came. I cut the bottom off dragged it up the 2 flights of stairs, and then figured there was no way I could hold it straight and screw in the bolts...hmmm what to do what to do....
So I sent him a text "can u stop on ur way home n help me with the tree"
He called said he'd be here in about an hour. I was a bit worried...not sure how he'd react to me asking....but anyway
He came, put the tree up, ran home and got wire to attach it to the wall, came back did that, etc.
Now, this was the first time the girls have met him...so it was two milestones in one night. I had told the girls he was going to help me, and they had a milliion questions- what does he do for work etc... I told them he works in tree's, gave them the whole deal on what he does...DD9 was impressed, so I said he has pictures on his phone I'll show you them when he gets here...I did, and she had more questions for him. "how scary is it to be up in that bucket?" "do you go up there in the rain?" etc. etc.
He was here for about 45 minutes, then went home to shower. The girls asked a couple more questions about him during dinner, and then that was it.
When he came over after they were in bed, he was sort of quiet, so I asked him if anything was wrong....
"no, I'm just glad you asked me to help you, seeing the girls faces when the tree went up made it worth it"
I was just
then he says- dont expect me to help take it down though LOL...
He's coming around slowly
Brandy
If you'll remember, he doesnt like holidays, thinks of them as any other day etc.
Well Monday the girls and I went and got our tree, a friend of mine with a truck was going to deliver it here for me. Yesterday the tree came. I cut the bottom off dragged it up the 2 flights of stairs, and then figured there was no way I could hold it straight and screw in the bolts...hmmm what to do what to do....
So I sent him a text "can u stop on ur way home n help me with the tree"
He called said he'd be here in about an hour. I was a bit worried...not sure how he'd react to me asking....but anyway
He came, put the tree up, ran home and got wire to attach it to the wall, came back did that, etc.
Now, this was the first time the girls have met him...so it was two milestones in one night. I had told the girls he was going to help me, and they had a milliion questions- what does he do for work etc... I told them he works in tree's, gave them the whole deal on what he does...DD9 was impressed, so I said he has pictures on his phone I'll show you them when he gets here...I did, and she had more questions for him. "how scary is it to be up in that bucket?" "do you go up there in the rain?" etc. etc.
He was here for about 45 minutes, then went home to shower. The girls asked a couple more questions about him during dinner, and then that was it.
When he came over after they were in bed, he was sort of quiet, so I asked him if anything was wrong....
"no, I'm just glad you asked me to help you, seeing the girls faces when the tree went up made it worth it"
I was just
then he says- dont expect me to help take it down though LOL...He's coming around slowly
Brandy

