Okay, first off, this has to do with the original poster being funny and a newbie to the cruise board (luvindisneyworld) taking the opportunity not to post a question, but to make a comment using the word "rude" in regard to my signature "by invitation only".
This was NOT the kind of thread that a newbie could and would have the "inside joke" on - and maybe not the kind of thread that someone new should have posted on (but she did and that was her choice). I'm not upset with luvindisneyworld for what she said about me. But honestly, I can't phathom anyone would believe that a cruise would be "BIO" since it is a public ship and Andy and I don't have the funds to rent it out for our private party.
As for being close, yes, many of us are - those of us who have cruised together or are about to, or have been around here for a long time do tend to know eachother better and can "joke around". I have never read anyone being excluded from any discussions because they have been new. It all depends on your on-line personality and questions, what you say and how you say it basically. And if you feel like you don't belong then maybe you need to post more often and become familiar to the boards so everyone can know you and you can know everyone.
There are a group of us who post regularly on all the Cruise threads and some who only post on a particular one. That doesn't make anyone better than anyone else - it just makes them more familiar.
Yes, LIGHTEN UP! What does that mean? It means that this post is about ME and MY SIGNATURE and if I choose to reply to a comment that I could have taken as insulting with a little laugh then so be it!
And I do reply to my private messages if anyone wants to continue this thread, but for my two cents, it's been fun but it's time to let it go.
Rae