Without a doubt the WL is the best resort for these attributes. I saw the subject of your thread and had no idea what it was going to be about...............but before I even checked I thought Wilderness Lodge. We have stayed at all of the WDW resorts (save a couple of the All Stars) and find the WL to be the most relaxing by a wide margin. Not that other resorts aren't relaxing, but the WL is just more so. The secluded feel of the incredible landscaping, the quiet walkways, sitting in front of a fireplace, finding a comfy chair/couch, the Hidden Springs pool and hot tub over by the Villas, the Spike room and lobby/fireplace in the Villas building (we are DVC members and own at VWL)..............so many quiet, peaceful, and relaxing things. The music they pipe into the resort and around the walkways even has a calming effect. Even the boat ride to the MK is peaceful and relaxing.
If you are going during the Christmas holiday season you can multiply the effect of all those things as the place just exudes a warm and cozy (two other attributes I apply to the WL) Christmas feeling.
Boy, am I looking forward to our annual post-Thanksgiving sojourn to the WL!!!