Okay, I was going to keep my mouth shut, but

...failure to maintain your vehicle in adverse weather conditions may not be "Following Too Close" but it is "Failure to maintain control of your vehicle", which will get you a citation in VA. It covers those weather related accidents, eating while driving, talking on the cell phone accidents, etc. etc. etc.
When I was in college I hit someone from behind thanks to slidding on ice. I was doing about 5 mph in a store parking lot but obviously couldn't stop once I hit the ice. Luckily there was no damage to either car and the other person wasn't interested in calling the police. I got lucky because I was totally at fault. My husband was rear-ended this past winter with all the snow and although the snow really wasn't a factor in the accident as the roads were scrapped and dry, (sounds almost identical to Pugdog07's situation) if YOU, the driver can't keep YOUR car from hitting someone or something else, then you are at fault.
As to the poster who asked about compassion, I'm not sure what type of compassion an officer should give?? I don't like getting tickets, but I had two speeding tickets in the (long ago) past. A ticket is a ticket and it stinks, but it was my fault. As long as the officer is professional, I don't expect him or her to necessarily be compassionate. I don't think officers need to be touchy feely - professional and polite -- yes.
Anyway Pugdog, I don't think you're alone in this situation. Some of us have been luckier than others it sounds like. Hopefully you can find a way to just take care of the citation without another trip into Atlanta. Good luck!