We've approached it that we've done what makes sense for our family/kids, and we've accepted any consequences without complaint. We live in a small town/district, and the consequences have been manageable. If the consequences were more severe, we wouldn't have done it. We've taken the kids out a day or so here or there for WDW or other trips, although we won't going forward now that my son will be in high school next year.
Basically our policy is that teachers are not required to provide any work in advance (although some will), and students are responsible for finding out and completing what they miss via Google classroom and the Team website. Teachers are required per their contract to provide one day per week of extra instruction after school (it's a rotation by subject), so students can make up texts/quizzes then or in their advisory period if they can arrange that with the teacher.
For our district, I think that the policy is "family friendly" for the kids because it's also "family friendly" for the teachers. For example, my sister is a teacher in the adjacent district. She is not allowed to take sick time or personal days on days adjacent to long weekends or school vacation weeks. Our district, for whatever reason, is more flexible with the teachers, and that's fine with me. I believe that teachers work very hard and if they are completing their job to the satisfaction of the administration, how they arrange their sick/personal days also is between the administration and the teachers. But for example, my daughter came home the Monday before the December break this year and told me that was the last day one of her teachers would be in school before the break because she was going on a family trip - the students still had 4 days left before the break (which was rather long 12/22-1/2). Maybe her kids are in a private school and have a different schedule (my friend who's a teacher in a local private school struggles with this)? Maybe it's a big family reunion? Who knows - not my business.
We also get several religious holidays off (although we are a public school), including Rosh Hashanah, which is usually 2 days in September. A couple of times when the kids were little we did those weeks for our WDW trip, because we got a full week but the kids only missed 2 or 3 days - twice we ran into teachers and their families on "school" days, with their kids who are also students in the district! Even this week...I was on FB the other day and I saw a teacher friend posting about an athletic competition out of state that they were attending on Monday and Tuesday (also with her child who is a student in the district). We've been happy with the schools and the teachers, so no complaints here.