GJM said:
Me and DH are thinking of moving to SC, Carolina Forest area. DS will be starting lst. grade in Sept. DH just lost his job, and we could sell our house up here and buy nicer and cheaper down there.
It seems like there would be more pros then living in NJ.
It just seems so scary moving, would we be able to get jobs, are the schools good and will we really like it.
Any advice you have would be great.
Can't give you any great advice other than I could have wrote this post myself.
DH and I met and married in South Carolina. When I was "young and dumb" (21) as I affectionately call it and didn't know any better I just up and moved to South Carolina with some friends whom I had met down there. I got a job at the local newspaper in Pickens, found a church, got involved with the community via a civic group and met my husband pretty much in that order. Funny thing was, he was from Delaware and I was from N.J. He was down visiting his brother and I was friends with his brother's wife.
We moved back up north shortly after we were married and I've hated it ever since! I just don't like Delaware try as I might and for the past 9 years I've just dreamed of the day we would get out of here.
Recently, (6 weeks ago to be exact) DH started talking about (and hasn't stopped talking about) moving back down South. The housing boom is still booming here and we could sell our house for over double what we paid for it. With that in mind we could pay off all of our debt and from the research we've done we would still be able to buy a house for cash essentially making us debt free!
We didn't leave S.C. because we hated it we left because after I was married I thought I
needed to live close to my family. Turns out I didn't need to be so close.

I loved it there. I loved the mild climate, I loved all the outdoorsey things to do, I loved the feeling of community and all of the festivals that were always happening. I loved how friendly and welcoming the people were and I really loved the feeling of belonging.
It's scary to think of moving, though. I'm not so "young and dumb" anymore and consequently not so brave as I was in yesteryear. I feel like we have a real opportunity that we need to take now if we're going to take it. The housing boom isn't going to boom forever so we need to make a decision soon.
I hope this helps with some of the pros of S.C. I didn't have too many cons. None that I can think of other than being a bit far from family.
To sum up: Great climate if you're tired of cold, cold winters.
Friendly faces and beautiful places.

Seriously, some of the friendliest folks I've met. Great State Parks. Wonderful sense of community.
We were close to Clemson University, Greenville and not too far from Atlanta so we always found something to do.
We liked it.