badmama3 said:
My daughter just turned three. Is this too much for her, or geared toward little girls?
We also took my dd when she was 2 weeks shy of turning three. She LOVED it!! She lasted the WHOLE party, and was SO sad to leave. She didn't like the food, but realistically...even if she had, she was just too excited to eat.
Within 30 minutes of leaving the party, she asked when we could go back. We were there the 2nd week of December, and I had made her a dress that looked like Aurora's. She is STILL talking about that tea party, and last night before she went to sleep she said, "Mom, I have to tell you a secret (something she does a LOT!! LOL). You have to make me a Cinderella dress so I can have tea with Cinderella, too." So, now I guess I am sewing Cinderella, too...she only has about 20 princess dresses in her closet. But, I guess she thinks Mom has to MAKE one to have tea with a princess!!
Anyway, my point is that she was not yet three...and this made more of an impression than ANYTHING else we did at the park!!! And, my dd has always been "behind" in what the "books" say your child should be "achieving" at certain ages. She is a smart kid, but due to many illnesses...she's behind. (We had her in developmental therapy at 18 months, and on her second b-day she was COMPLETELY non-verbal). What I am trying to say is...I don't think your dd has to be "gifted" or "advanced" to enjoy the tea party at 3...my dd is just an average "almost" 3 year-old who LOVED the whole experience!!
But, I would definitely caution for older girls, unless they are happy sitting on the sides and watching. Maybe it was just our particular party, but the oldest girl in our party was around 6. Since the girls hold hands and "dance" around the room in a group, I would think a lot of 11 year old girls would feel awkward in this situation. I'm certainly not saying ALL. I know a few 16 yr olds who would LOVE this party (of course, I teach acting and the all want to go to WDW and work as princesses)!!! But, there is an age where it is not "cool" to sit on Santa's lap for a pic., and then there is an age where it becomes cool again...and, everyone reaches that age differently. I would just caution any 11 yr old that they might be the oldest kid by 5 years or so, and definitely encourage the "Mom and daughter" bonding time.
I'd say, decide whether or not your kids will like this on your kids as individuals. My dd was GREAT at the party (when she was 2)...and, I just KNEW she would be. The earlier poster had an 11 yr old who LOVED it...I'm sure that came as no surprise either.
This is one of the BEST things I have ever done at WDW!! I'm so glad it is now a permanent fixture, and I think we will do it every December until my dd tires of it..it is just so cute!!!!
Beca