Prayers and PD Needed for me

[DisneyCP2002]

I don't even know where to begin and at this point I'm so upset that I don't know how much longer I will last at Disney. A little back story:

I used to have to very close friends, ones that I loved very much. When I got the interview for this job, they were all for it. Now that I'm here they've turned into monsters. I sit here crying tonight because of what one did tonight. Tonight I turned to her with a problem and she flat out refused to help. I've now learned that I can trust no one. I didn't know going to disney would cause this many enemies. She made me feel worthless and like a piece of crap. Even on my first day at disney, she made me feel like that. I guess I know what she really thought of me then but held out hope.

The other, well she's just completly tuned me out. She says I've ruined her summer by taking this job.

I know this sounds like alot of rambling but right now I'm hurting. Deep down these were the closest friends I have had in a long time. Now I feel alone again and upset and I don't know what to do. I want to leave Disney, maybe then that will make them both happy, I don't know anymore. Just send any spare Prayers and PD my way if you have a chance, thanks.

 

[Disney_1derland]

First of all, you cannot make your decisions to make them happy. You should stay, have a wonderful time, make 1000's of new friends and just go on without them. They are the ones losing something, not you.

I know the reality of it is much tougher than that but honestly, if this is truly what you want to do, then don't let two people who were obviously not your friends make it bad for you.

I've so been there many times in my life, if you need to talk, feel free to pm me, it helps to know you're not alone

 

[sweet angel]

Do things to make yourself happy. If your "friends" can't be happy for you, then perhaps they're not really your friends.

 

[dis4me]

Try and make new friends who have the same interests as you. Forget about them they obviously wren't worth it in the first place

 

[4nana]

I don't know why your friends would do this to you, but, they don't sound like true friends. I would do some soul searching and do what is in your heart and best for you . Maybe you could be transferred to another department and build some new friends. Best wishes and keep the faith as there is light at the end of the tunnel. Things will look up soon.

 

[holycow]

First off I'm sorry you feel abandoned by your friends...I don't know what your "problem" was that your friend refused to help you with BUT...at least you know this whole problem is now out in the open and that they aren't going behind your back making you feel even worse.

I would tell my DD the same thing....you have a wonderful opportunity before you. It won't last forever...so take it and make the best of it. Make some new friends go and have some fun with your new job! And just forget these 2 "friends" ...they really don't sound like much in the friend department.

Good luck to you and Hugs...go and just walk around DTD.,..don't hang out inyour room by yourself...you'll feel better!

Holycow

 

[DisneyCP2002]

Thanks for the advice everyone so far. I've stopped crying for now so I feel better. Your all right, I should enjoy my time here. If they truly were my friends they would accept that. Still need PD and prayers as this all works out, it's out of my hands.

 

[Amberle3]

A few things to remember:

1) You are not responsible for anyone's happiness but your own. Sure it's nice to be a part of someone else being happy, but ultimately they are responsible for their own happiness. If your friend thinks you ruined HER summer by working at Disney, well then frankly I think she has a screw loose. How much she enjoys her summer is entirely up to her.

2) I don't know if this is going to come out right, but I think this is how you have to look at things: No one should be in control of your life but you. If your friends are making you miserable, and especially if you think they know they are and are intentionally doing it, you have to STOP LETTING THEM. They obviously aren't true friends, and as such don't deserve to be given that much power over your life.

This is YOUR life. YOU have control over it. Okay so friends A and B are miffed because you expanded your circle to include more than them - either they have to get over it, or move on. You can't devote your life to making sure that 2 selfish friends are happy.

Yes, it hurts. It definitely hurts. But the more you let them decide how you should feel, the more it will hurt.

 

[smilingmouse]

Dania,

I'm very sorry that you are going through this....

Feel free to PM me if you would like to talk....

Good luck!

 

[Trinity721]

A few things to remember:

1) You are not responsible for anyone's happiness but your own. Sure it's nice to be a part of someone else being happy, but ultimately they are responsible for their own happiness. If your friend thinks you ruined HER summer by working at Disney, well then frankly I think she has a screw loose. How much she enjoys her summer is entirely up to her.

2) I don't know if this is going to come out right, but I think this is how you have to look at things: No one should be in control of your life but you. If your friends are making you miserable, and especially if you think they know they are and are intentionally doing it, you have to STOP LETTING THEM. They obviously aren't true friends, and as such don't deserve to be given that much power over your life.

This is YOUR life. YOU have control over it. Okay so friends A and B are miffed because you expanded your circle to include more than them - either they have to get over it, or move on. You can't devote your life to making sure that 2 selfish friends are happy.

Yes, it hurts. It definitely hurts. But the more you let them decide how you should feel, the more it will hurt.

Couldn't agree more. Hugs to you and I hope it all works out for you. IMHO, they should just love you or leave you alone. In a situation like this, you need to put yourself and your happiness first.

 

[Pooh Girl 71]

I'm sorry you are feeling bad. Don't let these people ruin your Disney experience. Some people just cannot be happy for others, don't let them get to you.

 

[Pooh's Pal]

Oh Dania....I'm so sorry you're hurting....hope all is well soon, you are in the "Happiest Place on Earth!"

 

[Mimi Q]

 

[Pooh67_68]

 

[lewdyan1]

 

[kaylajr]

 

[stemikger]

Don't let them win. If you leave - you are giving two very nasty people power over you. Don't let that happen.

I know your hurt because they were so called friends, but frineds don't behave that way and now that they showed their true colors - move on.

People show you who they are and these two certainly showed you in a very hurtful way.

I'm sending you a pray that this bad experience makes you stronger and although very hurtful - somewhere there is a life lesson in this.

That which does not kill you makes you stonger.

 

[catherine]

I'm so sorry that you're so upset! Don't let these so called friends dictate what you do with your life! If this is the way that they treat you then you are better off without them. This is a great opportunity for you, make the most of it. Move on with your life, and be a success!

 

[DisneyCP2002]

Thanks everyone for the support. I feel alot better than I did last night, still hurts but that will take time to heal.

 

[Dan Murphy]

They do not sound like friends, Dania. Are these two at WDW or back home?

Go about your business, enjoy your time there. You made my time, and that of Peg and Kendall, special the other day when we met you there at Cosmic Rays. Your smile and joy you shared with us help brighten our evening.