I live in Silver Spring...
Like PPs have said, Silver Spring is a very large and diverse area. I live in the upper part of Silver Spring, about 2 miles outside of Olney, MD. I also happen to work in Silver Spring... in the "downtown Silver Spring" area, which is about 7 miles from my house. However, because the traffic situation on Georgia Ave is "unpredictable" at best, and horrific at worst, it can take me anywhere from 20-25 mins to almost an hour to travel those 7 miles during the work week. (Conversely, on a weekend or at night when there's no traffic, I can make the same trip in about 10-15 mins)
All in all, I love the DC area... I'm a DC girl, born and raised, and have lived in the city or the DC suburbs for my whole life (I'm 32). BUT... traffic sucks, and the metro (subway) is great when it's good, and REALLY bad when it's bad.
There are some great private schools in the area, and as others have said, NoVA (northern VA) has some great public schools. Montgomery County has some decent public schools, but from what I understand it can vary widely from decent to great. (I don't have kids yet, so I don't think I'm the best qualified to really address that part)
If you plan on working in the city, then I would suggest taking a look at areas that offer relatively easy access to the metro (i.e. - it's within a decent drive). If you will be working in MoCo (and depending on where in MoCo), then I would suggest looking at places like Gaithersburg or Germantown or Kensington and maybe North Bethesda.
Feel free to PM me if you have questions!
