I admit it, I have been really thinking about this. I know my kids did well and they know. And I know they will be ready to take on future challenges.
And I don't want to be a snowflake! My daughter's teacher told the class she had a 7th grade parent come in upset about an A- in English, it was going to keep him from being Valdictorian

That is scary! (and not true, Valdictorian is based on HS grades) I feel so bad for the stress and pressure that child must be getting at home. I know there is a middle ground and I think we went past that and to the other extreme.
BUT, it still upsets me. My 8th grader has been so proud at the past events and the different lists really gave her a goal. And my 6th grader was ready for the challenge. I don't want them to have crowns or for us to bow to them for what they did (can you imagine living with that!). But, everything else at school gets acknowledged. You are good at sports -- you play more and your stats get posted in the paper. You can sing -- great you get the lead in the play. You can spell -- enter the spelling contest and win an award. You get good grades -- keep your head down and don't make anyone else feel bad.
Do you think we are going to require equal playing time on the sport teams? Each play should have equal lines in the play? When is it all going to end? Why are grades, the main reason we are in school, to be the first to be "taken away" I just don't get it!
That's why I wanted to hear other views and what other schools are doing -- our principal told us we are going into a new frontier with the policy.